Holding Space, Cultivating Trust, and Allowing the Sweetness of Life ft. Cayler Simpson - #497

YIELD Today With Dallin Candland

Cayler and I have interacted at church activities here and there over the years. Recently we started talking about business, life, and flow and it just went SO WELL and I KNEW I had to get him on the podcast, so here he is. We recorded this while on a walk at the park it was definitely a VIBE.
Cayler is planning to start his own business with massage, yoga, and other good stuff soon, but for now we talked about his vision of it, of making space for people, helping them run the show, and just helping them vibe more on their level. It was a beautiful conversation! Super thankful! This was recorded on May 16, 2024.
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Time Stamps:
1:08 - Helping People Feel Heard
2:18 - Knowing What the Connection You Want Feels Like
3:36 - Why Cayler Really Doesn't Like Heights (But Faces it Anyway!)
6:25 - Testing the waters when it comes to trust with people.
11:18 - The Only Person You Can Control is Yourself
13:30 - We Can Choose How Kind We Are to Ourselves
15:44 - We Need to Give Ourselves More Space
21:30 - Being Able to Just Talk (Without Fear of Judgment)
23:04 - Bouncing Back From Failure (Through Having a Good Conversation)
26:04 - The Beauty of Being Vulnerable with Those We Care About
27:52 - The Deep Training From Our Childhoods and Stuff
29:37 - Setting Boundaries with Ourselves and Our Technology
35:53 - Letting Things Just Happen Naturally
38:00 - How God Has Held Space for Cayler
43:20 - People CAN Change
46:03 - Wait and Listen
Quotes:
5:19 - "I share more information with those people who DESERVE that information." - Cayler
6:25 - "People will teach you what they do with your information."
7:03 - "Withholding information for the proper time is a great skill to have."
7:25 - "Sometimes people aren't ready to hear it, so it's not beneficial to share that information with them yet."
8:45 - "If you don't ask, how are you supposed to know?"
12:57 - "It's a beautiful day to make space for yourself - to run around and do whatever."
14:40 - "Just do YOU like why in the world are you waiting to do you?"
15:03 - "The moment is SO SPECIAL you remember it like it happened yesterday."
18:27 - "You gotta be careful with fire..."
20:57 - "Making it SO CLEAR so I don't have to make it a decision in a moment."
21:23 - "I Just Want to be Heard for Like 5 Minutes..."
23:30 - "Would you like to hear how I see this?"
24:09 - "I felt SO heard, I felt SO seen, it was SO beautiful."
24:35 - "I created a whole new space for myself and it went WAY BETTER."
25:53 - "When you respect and trust then ALL of these other things can flow."
26:19 - "When you tone it down it makes it hard to hear what they are trying to say."
27:50 - "THE TRAINING! THE TRAINING! THE TRAINING - MAN IS CRAZY!!!"
37:18 - "Taking time to respond and not just respond in a moment can change EVERYTHING."
39:51 - "God is there if you just choose to see the good in what is around you."
46:25 - "Letting people finish their thoughts is SO important."

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