Recharging Your Battery When You’re Running Low as an Autism Mom

Thriving Moms of Autistics

Hi Moms! I had a conversation recently with a group of women about mental health and trauma. Someone added to the conversation that we don’t heal alone. We heal in the presence of others. That’s how we were made. What a great point!

Modern society tells us that we can do it all ourselves and should take pride in that, which might contribute to the greater levels of depression and anxiety we are all experiencing at this time in history.

Women need to feel connected. They flourish in the right supportive environment. This is hard to do because some groups can be toxic, which makes us run from others and seek independence.

Have you had that experience? I think we all have at some point, whether in childhood, adolescence, or even adulthood. The point is that you can feel supported in the right environment.

In this episode, I explore how building supports can change the trajectory of your path and recharge your battery as a mom of an autistic.

Find the full transcript for this episode at www.thrivingmomsofautistics.com/39

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Taking the Independent Path as an Autism Mom

Everyone has bumps in the road in their journey. Unfortunately, life is not a smooth path. Moms of autistics know this all too well.

It can be isolating because our experiences as moms are quite different from others. It’s hard for those to understand, who have not had those same experiences. Although people often try, that’s normal.

This is one reason why moms of autistics isolate themselves. It’s hard to explain what we are going through, especially when it comes to the unique challenges often that we face.

Our triumphs seem miniscule to others, but for us that milestone was a long time coming, which makes it that much sweeter. It’s a beautiful thing to have someone to celebrate those victories with.

Another reason why moms of autistics isolate themselves is because it takes a lot of energy to explain or try to help others understand their situation. Does that mean others won’t understand? Of course not. Everyone is different.

In the past, I’ve talked about opportunities to educate others in moments of difficulty. Sometimes, people are closed off to understanding, which is their loss. Move on from it. Don’t take on that additional stress. You don’t need it. It has nothing to do with you. It’s about them.

Most often, it lightens the load and brings us together. Further allowing us to come together when things get hard again, and they will. That’s life!

We all have challenges. We just have different challenges.

Making the Transition to Share Your Autism Journey with Others

It’s not easy to decide to switch gears and open yourself and your situation up to others. I thought I was fully equipped to do it all on my own.

My husband was supportive, but we didn’t have anyone in our inner circle. We were too busy making sure our son had everything he needed in terms of growth, therapy, and milestones.

We were wrong. Our son needed others in his life that understood and were supportive just as much as we did. We learned the hard way when we both had back-to-back medical emergencies within a two-month period.

The Benefit of Running on a Full Charge as a Mom of an Autistic

One obvious benefit is that you have others to bounce ideas off of. They might have different experiences with their autistic loved one but can appreciate the challenge.

It is powerful to have someone listen to you and try to understand. They don’t have to fix it for us. But we need others to empathize and love us through it. That is a great start to recharging your battery. Otherwise, you just marinate in it,