Unsolicited advice, a fashion faux pas, and our take on Reynolds Lake Oconee

Sticks Together | Couples Golf

This week on Sticks Together, we dive into the intricacies of managing unsolicited advice on the golf course, our memorable trip to Reynolds Lake Oconee, and, of course, a few fashion tips from Slade. It's our pilot episode, and we're excited to embark on this journey.

The unique aspect of our relationship is playing golf together as a couple. It's not something you see every day, especially for couples our age. Stacey notes that many women her age primarily play golf with their husbands, while Slade shares his experience playing golf mostly with men, but also enjoying rounds with Stacey.

Our shared history with golf dates back to when we first met. Slade was surprised at Stacey's golfing prowess, having never played a round with a woman until he met her parents. Golf became a significant part of our relationship, shaping many of our early memories together. Stacey started playing golf in her early twenties, and our mutual love for the game naturally became a key part of our dating life.

There are joys and challenges in couples golf. Slade notes the camaraderie and relationships built through the game, likening it to playing with friends of the same gender but with a slightly different dynamic. Stacey highlights the distinct experience of playing golf with men versus women, touching on the historical sexism in the sport and the casual, fun nature of couples golf.

Unsolicited advice on the course is a major topic. Slade is astounded by how often men feel compelled to give unsolicited advice to women, viewing it as both patronizing and a reflection of a superiority complex. Stacey agrees, explaining that while some men are well-meaning, the advice often comes from a place of not seeing women as peers on the golf course. This can be discouraging for many women, who are often seeking a fun and casual experience rather than a lesson.

We recap our recent trip to Reynolds Lake Oconee in Georgia, where we experienced the beauty and challenges of the courses there. The heat was intense, but the scenery and course conditions made it worthwhile. Slade praises the design and layout of the Great Waters course, while Stacey appreciates the variety of tee options that accommodate different skill levels.

As we wrap up our first episode, we reflect on the importance of couples golf and its potential to grow the game. We hope to provide tips and insights for couples looking to enjoy golf together while addressing common challenges like unsolicited advice. Our goal is to make the game more accessible and enjoyable for women, fostering a more inclusive golfing community.

Reynolds Lake Oconee: https://www.reynoldslakeoconee.com/