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Episode Three: Are You Ready to Hear What Your Partner Doesn't Like About You?
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Kris Bullock and Katie DiBenedetto द्वारा प्रदान की गई सामग्री. एपिसोड, ग्राफिक्स और पॉडकास्ट विवरण सहित सभी पॉडकास्ट सामग्री Kris Bullock and Katie DiBenedetto या उनके पॉडकास्ट प्लेटफ़ॉर्म पार्टनर द्वारा सीधे अपलोड और प्रदान की जाती है। यदि आपको लगता है कि कोई आपकी अनुमति के बिना आपके कॉपीराइट किए गए कार्य का उपयोग कर रहा है, तो आप यहां बताई गई प्रक्रिया का पालन कर सकते हैं https://hi.player.fm/legal।
In this podcast we explore the question I'm sure will resonate with every couple who's currently in or has been in a long term relationship:
Kris and I are a very loving, connected, conscious couple with a unique relationship. We generally don't relate to the cliche issues common in mainstream monogamous relationships.
Why Aren't We Having Sex Anymore? (or less frequently, or like we used to)
Yet we found ourselves not having sex - a very cliche problem. As always, we wanted to get to the root of why, instead of just accepting it as an unavoidable side effect.
It's socially accepted as "normal" for sexual desire to wane, yet there's no conscious discussion around why. So we got all up in each others business and broke down what we were doing to kill the sexual energy and turn the other person off. We made sure to keep the conversation constructive and positive, and in the end it was tremendously helpful.
We reference David Deida's concept of the three stages of relationships, with "Intimate Communion" being the third stage, and the stage that taught us to fight in a healthy way. In the rare instance where a fight drags on for a while, we have the framework in place to get to the bottom of it quickly and respectfully using a language that we both understand.
This podcast can be streamed or downloaded below, or you can subscribe to it on iTunes.
Episode Resources:
Watch all 12 parts of this YouTube series (totals about 90 minutes) - It is a great intro to David Deida's work. If you can get over the cheesy intro music, you will find lots of humor, tons of real life scenarios to relate to, and ways you can deepen your partnership.
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