Normalizing the Realities of Marriage: Embracing Relational Friction

AwakenYou in Your Marriage

Have you ever found yourself thinking, "Why is marriage so hard? Shouldn't it be easier if we're truly meant to be together?"
You're not alone.
We’ve been taught to believe that if we were with the “right” partner, marriage would be effortless, smooth, and happy all the time. But the reality? Even the happiest couples face challenges. The difference is, they’ve learned to navigate those challenges and grow from them.
In this episode, I dive deep into the myths surrounding marriage and why it's perfectly okay—and even healthy—to experience friction in your relationship.
You’ll discover:
- Why the belief that marriage should be easy can actually harm your relationship.
- How to view relational friction as an opportunity for deeper connection.
- Practical ways to shift your perspective on marital challenges, turning them into moments of growth.
If you’ve ever felt shame or frustration in your marriage, this episode is for you. It’s time to let go of the idea that there’s something wrong with you or your relationship just because it’s not “perfect.” Instead, let’s embrace the beautiful, messy reality of what marriage truly is—a journey of continuous growth and deeper love.
I can’t wait for you to listen, reflect, and start seeing your relationship in a new light, tune in now!
And remember, if you’re feeling stuck or need someone to talk to, I’m here. You can book a "Courageous Love Conversation" with me, and we’ll work through it together.
With love and encouragement,
Christine
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