Welcome to the Helping Couples Heal podcast. If you have lost hope around healing your relationship due to infidelity, relational or betrayal trauma you have come to the right place. Helping Couples Heal is an ongoing podcast designed to help couples recover and heal from the impact of betrayal trauma on their relationships. We cumulatively bring over two decades of experience and expertise in the field of betrayal. Throughout this podcast series, we will offer resources and support and teac ...
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Relationships are complex. They are filled with ups and downs, highs and lows. And sometimes, it can feel like you're struggling just to keep your head above water. If you're feeling like this, then it's important to reach out for help. That's where Tom and Staci Bartley come in. As relationship experts, they have helped countless couples overcome the challenges that they're facing. And now, they're here to help you. The Love Shack Live Show is filled with advice and tips that will help you ...
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73. Interview with Dr. Omar Minwalla (re-release)
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This week I decided to re-release an old podcast episode from 2019 when me and Duane first interviewed Dr. Omar Minwalla. In this interview, we talk to Dr. Omar Minwalla about the compulsive abusive sexual relational disorder model and how the model has changed the way we view deceptive sexuality and approach treatment. Since the time of this inter…
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#206: Your Partner Needs Space—Here’s How to Handle It Without Falling Apart
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Send us a text You felt the divide long before it was spoken. The missed glances. The quiet tension. Then the words you dreaded: “I think I need space.” Your stomach drops. Panic sets in. You’ve tried everything—giving more, doing more, being more. And now, it feels like the end. But what if it’s not? What if this moment, as painful as it feels, is…
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#205: Holiday Chaos? Here’s How to Protect Your Peace (and Your Relationship)
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Send us a text The holidays are supposed to be a time of love and togetherness, but for many couples, they’re anything but. Maybe you’re dreading that family dinner, knowing the cracks in your relationship will feel like they’re under a microscope. Or perhaps you’re bracing for the political debates, old family patterns, or conversations that could…
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72. Rebuilding Self-Trust After Betrayal
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In this episode of the Helping Couples Heal podcast, Marnie and Ilyse dive into the profound impact betrayal has on self-trust, exploring how infidelity and sex addiction can leave betrayed partners questioning their intuition, worth, and decision-making abilities. Together, they unpack the ways betrayal damages one’s ability to trust oneself and s…
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#204: Are You Being Manipulated—or Are You the Manipulator?
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Send us a text Ever feel like you’re walking on eggshells, second-guessing every word you say or action you take in your relationship? Or maybe you notice a quiet tension—like something unspoken is driving your connection further apart. Here’s the uncomfortable truth: manipulation often hides in plain sight. And it’s not just them—it’s us, too. Wel…
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#203: Surviving Stressful Times as a Couple—What to Do When the World Feels Divided
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Send us a text This week’s election brought about a surge of emotions across the country—some people are feeling relief and optimism, while others face a deep sense of concern and uncertainty. For many couples, these contrasting feelings coexist under the same roof, adding a new layer of tension to their relationship. When the world feels divided, …
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71. A Call to Men with Ted Bunch [re-release]
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This week I decided to re-release an episode from April 2023 when Duane and I interviewed Ted Bunch, the COO and co-Founder of A Call to Men. Recently Helping Couples Heal has been focusing a great deal of attention on the topic of male socialization and male sexual entitlement. This interview with Ted provides an opportunity to further the convers…
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#202: The Hard Questions You’re Afraid to Ask in Your Relationship—Answered
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Send us a text Ever looked at your partner and felt a distance you can’t quite put into words? Once easy conversations now feel loaded, and you find yourself tiptoeing around topics that need addressing. It’s a crossroads, and you’re wondering: Is there a way back to real connection, or is it too late? In this episode of Love Shack Live, we’re divi…
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#201: The 3 Most Overlooked Conversations in Every Relationship
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Send us a text What if I told you there are three hidden conversations that most couples never have—until it’s too late? We’re not talking about the dramatic arguments. These are the quiet, everyday moments, full of small frustrations and unspoken expectations, building up layer by layer until they create real cracks in your relationship. In this e…
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#200: 200 Episodes, 200 Chances: Your Relationship Isn't Over – It's Just Beginning
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Send us a text Are you at the point where the silence between you and your partner is louder than the conversations? The same arguments, the same disappointments, the same distance, growing with every passing day. You’ve tried everything — from pleading to pretending everything’s fine — but the gap only seems to widen. You’re not alone. In fact, ov…
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#199: Neglect Is Destroying Your Relationship – Recognize the Signs Before It’s Too Late
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Send us a text Picture this: You’re sitting across from your partner. The house is finally quiet, no phones, no distractions. But instead of feeling close, there’s an empty space between you... a gap that feels impossible to bridge. Sound familiar? You’re not alone. 67% of couples report feeling emotionally disconnected, but here’s the real shocker…
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In this episode of the Helping Couples Heal podcast, Marnie talks about the importance of consistency in healing from betrayal. Marnie candidly and directly guides both betrayed partners and betrayers to develop an understanding of what consistently means in the context of betrayal and how the role consistently plays in helping couples heal.…
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#198: Falling Out of Love or Just Disconnected? How to Tell and What to Do
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Send us a text Do you ever hear people say, “We just fell out of love”? Perhaps you’ve even said it yourself. It’s easy to believe that love simply fades when life gets busy or tough. But here’s the truth: it’s a myth. Love doesn’t just slip away; it evolves. And understanding that evolution is the key to rekindling your relationship. Welcome to Lo…
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#197: Five Warning Signs Your Marriage is Headed for Divorce—and How to Stop It
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Send us a text Ever felt like you’re living with a stranger, even though your partner is right beside you? It didn’t happen overnight, but here you are—facing a growing emotional gap and conflicts that seem to have no end. You’ve tried to talk, tried to fix things, but somehow, the distance just keeps building. And now, you’re left wondering: Is my…
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#196: How to Communicate Emotional Needs Before Resentment Takes Over
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Send us a text What if the toughest conversations in your relationship aren’t the ones you’re having—but the ones you’re avoiding? Resentment doesn’t build from the big arguments. It grows in the silence, in the moments when you keep your needs hidden, hoping your partner will just know. But here’s the reality: they won’t. And that unspoken tension…
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69. After Betrayal: Moral and Ethical Decisions Beyond the Lies and Deception
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In our last episode, Marnie talked about how to move forward after betrayal with a partner who refuses to provide safety, reassurance, consistency and active participation in the healing process. In this episode of the Helping Couples Heal podcast, Marnie and Ilyse continue the conversation, this time turning the focus to the betraying partner. Jus…
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#195: Stuck in the ‘Gray Zone’? Here’s What to Do When You’re Unsure Whether to Stay or Go in Your Relationship
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Send us a text Ever feel like you’re living in relationship limbo? You’re stuck in the middle, unsure whether to stay or walk away, and every decision feels like the wrong one. You’re emotionally drained, and no matter how hard you try, the clarity you crave just won’t come. You’re not alone. In fact, 65% of people in struggling relationships feel …
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#194: The Effortless Love Myth: Why Every Couple Needs Skills
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Send us a text Why does it feel like love isn’t enough to fix your relationship? You’ve tried everything—communicating more, planning date nights, giving space, and even avoiding conflict altogether. Yet, the same problems keep resurfacing, and you’re left wondering if love alone can really sustain a lasting relationship. The frustration, the exhau…
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68. The Unchangeable Truth: We Can't Change Others
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The Unchangeable Truth: We Can't Change Others In this episode of the Helping Couples Heal podcast, Marnie talks about the pain and confusion that arises for couples when one partner is not doing the work to heal. She gently and compassionately addresses the hard truth that nobody can force another person to do recovery work, demonstrate empathy, t…
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#193: When Your Self-Improvement Journey Triggers Your Partner's Insecurities (Part 3)
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Send us a text Are you tired of waiting for your partner to change? Frustrated that your efforts to improve yourself seem to be driving a wedge between you instead of bringing you closer? You're not alone. Welcome to Love Shack Live, the podcast for those standing at a relationship crossroads. If you're grappling with daily conflicts, feeling an em…
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#192: The Heartbreak of Waiting: How to Move Forward When Your Partner Stays Stuck (Part Two)
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Send us a text You’ve taken the brave step to focus on self-growth, believing it would inspire positive change in your relationship. But despite your efforts, your partner remains unchanged, and you’re left feeling frustrated, as though you’re stuck in a holding pattern, waiting for them to catch up. This situation can feel like you’re standing in …
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67. Healing After Betrayal: One Couple's Story
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In this episode of the Helping Couples Heal podcast, Marnie talks to HCH coaches Susan and Scott Rankin, a husband and wife with their own story of relational betrayal and healing. Susan and Scott vulnerably share their journey of healing and rebuilding their relationship and open up about the painful impact the addiction had on their lives and the…
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#191: Stuck Waiting for Your Partner to Change? The Self-Focus Solution You Need Now (Part 1)
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Send us a text Love Shack Live is taking a short Back To School break. We will be back with a new episode on 8/24/24. Tired of feeling like your relationship's success hinges solely on your partner's willingness to change? You're not alone. Many of us find ourselves stuck in this frustrating cycle, feeling powerless and unfulfilled. Welcome to Love…
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66. Breaking the Silence: A Woman's Journey Through Pornography Addiction
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In this deeply personal and eye-opening episode, Marnie sits down with "Jess", who bravely shares her experience with pornography addiction. Jess discusses the roots of her addiction, the emotional and psychological impact it had on her life, and the challenges she faced in seeking help. She opens up about the stigma surrounding female pornography …
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#190: From 'You Never Listen' to 'I Feel Heard': Transform Your Relationship Today
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Send us a text Are you tired of feeling like your partner never listens to you? Do you find yourself constantly repeating the same things, only to be met with blank stares or distracted nods? You're not alone. Welcome to Love Shack Live, the podcast for couples at a relationship crossroads. If you're facing daily conflicts and a growing emotional g…
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#189: When Words Wound: The Silent Killer of Relationships and How to Fight Back
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Send us a text Struggling with constant arguments and feeling like every disagreement is a personal attack? You're not alone. Many couples face daily conflicts and an emotional gap that seems impossible to bridge. Welcome to Love Shack Live, the podcast for those at a relationship crossroads, seeking to rebuild a bond that feels genuine and lasting…
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65. Betrayal Violence with Hope Ray
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In this episode of the Helping Couples Heal podcast, Marnie talks with her friend, colleague and author of the Complex Partner Trauma magazine, Hope Ray, about integrity abuse and betrayal violence. With compassion, Marnie and Hope have a brutally honest conversation about the power and control dynamics present in relationships where betrayal has o…
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#188: Why Your Partner Doesn’t Just ‘Know’ What You Need – And What to Do About It
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Send us a text Do you feel like your partner should just know how to love you without you having to spell it out? Ever been frustrated because your partner doesn’t instinctively know what you need? This common belief can lead to deep resentment and a pile of unmet expectations. Welcome to Love Shack Live, the podcast for those at a relationship cro…
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64. Financial Shame and Anxiety: Transforming fear to empowerment after betrayal
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In this episode of the helping couples heal podcast, Marnie speaks with Ilyse craft, Joni ogle and Stephanie roman about the complexity of finances and more specifically, in the aftermath of betrayal. Navigating financial fears can be daunting, especially after betrayal. It's common to feel avoidant, but it's crucial to face these issues head-on to…
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#187: Is Blame Destroying Your Relationship? Here’s What to Do Instead
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Send us a text Are you and your partner stuck in a cycle of blame, constantly pointing fingers, and feeling the emotional strain it puts on your relationship? The blame game can create emotional gaps, turn disagreements into battles over who's right, and chip away at trust. This ongoing tension builds resentment, leaves both partners feeling distan…
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63. Should I stay, or should I go? with Ilyse Craft
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In this episode of the Helping Couples Heal podcast, Marnie talks with HCH President and betrayal trauma coach Ilyse Craft about the complexities partners face after experiencing betrayal, specifically the decision of whether to stay or leave their relationship. Finding clarity about the future of a relationship traumatized by betrayal involves nav…
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#186: Why Do We Always End Up Fighting? Fix Your Communication Struggles
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Send us a text Do you ever feel like your words fall on deaf ears when you’re trying to communicate with your partner? It’s incredibly disheartening to pour your heart out, only to feel misunderstood and disconnected. Imagine if there was a way to bridge that emotional gap and turn frustrating conversations into meaningful connections. Welcome to L…
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#185: Reconnecting After Separation: Practical Steps to Rebuild Trust
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Send us a text Have you ever wondered if you can truly trust your partner again, especially after betrayal or separation? The pain of past betrayals and the fear of opening up again can be paralyzing, but what if there's a way to rebuild trust step by step? Welcome to Love Shack Live, the podcast for listeners who find themselves at a relationship …
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#184: Relationship on the Rocks? Why You Need Skills, Not Couples Counseling
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Send us a text Are you feeling the emotional gap growing between you and your partner, afraid that seeking help might only leave you more disconnected and frustrated? It’s daunting when past attempts at counseling have left you feeling even more alone, and you wonder if there’s any hope left for your relationship. The fear of another ineffective se…
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#183: Help! My Partner Refuses to Go to Therapy
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Send us a text In this heartfelt episode, we're diving into a question that's both frustrating and isolating: "What do you do if your partner doesn't want to work on your relationship?" If you're feeling stuck, hopeless, and unsure of what to do next, you're not alone. Join us as we unpack why your partner might be reluctant to work on your relatio…
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In their final podcast episode together, Marnie and Duane talk about men and shame in the context of healing relationships after betrayal.द्वारा Marnie Breecker
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#182: Should I Stay or Should I Go? Here's How to Move Past Relationship Uncertainty
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Send us a text Are you feeling stuck in your relationship, unsure whether to stay or go? The constant conflict and emotional distance can be overwhelming. Welcome to Love Shack Live, the podcast designed for those at a relationship crossroads, facing daily struggles but eager to rebuild a lasting, genuine bond. I'm Staci Bartley, and alongside my c…
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#181: Why Can't We Connect? Unraveling the Mystery Behind Emotional Distance in Your Relationship
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Send us a text Have you ever felt deeply misunderstood by the person you love the most? It's as if you're both living in separate worlds, struggling to connect, and watching the distance between you grow each day. The once effortless conversations have become confusing, leaving you feeling isolated and frustrated. If you're experiencing daily confl…
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