283: Why You’re Attracting the Wrong Partner & How to Fix It – Dating Secrets with Evan Marc Katz

The Brave Table with Dr. Neeta Bhushan

Hey loves, welcome back to The Brave Table! 💫 Today, we’re diving into one of the most requested topics: dating in the modern world. And guess what? You’re in for a treat. I’m sitting down with the OG Dating Coach himself, Evan Marc Katz—the world’s first dating coach and a bestselling author. He’s guided over 13,000 women through his Love U University, helping smart, strong, and successful women find lasting love.

In this rollercoaster episode, Evan and I unpack why the dating apps feel broken, how to make meaningful connections in a swipe-culture, and why your checklist might be sabotaging your love life. He spills the tea on compatibility, courtship, and how to build a "dating practice" that works. Plus, we deep-dive into the five C’s you need for a thriving relationship: Character, Kindness, Consistency, Communication, and Connection. Trust me, this episode is dripping with insight and actionable tips to help you rewrite your love story.

What you'll get out of this episode…

Spend 30 minutes daily on intentional dating—like a workout for your love life.

Focus on lasting qualities over looks—compatibility beats attraction.

Prioritize Character, Kindness, Consistency, Communication, and Connection in love.

Use dating apps for meaningful introductions—flirt, connect, and screen before meeting.

Never settle for someone who treats you worse than your dating coach would.

TIMESTAMPS

[00:00:00] Intro: Why the dating world feels broken

[00:01:50] Meet Evan Marc Katz: The OG dating coach

[00:03:45] Are you attracting the wrong men?

[00:07:15] How dating apps have changed courtship

[00:11:00] Building a “dating practice” that works

[00:16:30] The 5 C’s of a healthy, lasting relationship

[00:24:45] The illusion of connection on dating apps

[00:27:50] Reframing the paradox of choice in dating

[00:36:15] Neeta’s personal journey to finding love

[00:45:20] How Evan’s Love U program transforms lives

[00:50:30] Outro + Special gifts for The Brave Table fam

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Dr. Neeta Bhushan is a 5x Award Winning Author & world-renowned emotional health advocate & human connection expert. She’s written multiple best-selling books including her most recent book, That Sucked, Now What endorsed by Jay Shetty, Host of the Top 50 Mental Health Podcast The Brave Table, & CEO of Highest Self Institute, a coaching organization training coaches to become the highest versions of themselves. She’s been featured on Forbes, LA Weekly, ABC, NBC, CBS, Grazia, Ok! Magazine, Verve Magazine & Tatler.

After realizing how trapped she felt running the million-dollar dental practice she built, Neeta embarked on a journey that led her across 45 countries as she researched blending the intersection of human behavior, ancient wisdom, Eastern philosophy, and therapeutic psychology. That knowledge, along with other life experiences overcoming multiple adversities, which include being orphaned at a young age, surviving an abusive marriage, and extensive loss, contributed to the powerful message of resilience & connection she shares in her work. Neeta is a mother of two young children, wellness junkie & lover of chai.