63. What do I do when my child is hitting?

Understanding Mother Stories

Today I discuss a common challenge many parents face: dealing with their child's aggressive behavior, such as hitting or biting. I emphasize that these behaviors are often impulsive and not intentional acts of harm. We highlight two main reasons behind such behavior: a lack of attention or connection from caregivers and possibly being exposed to physical handling or aggression from others.

We advocate for adults using their own self-control and understanding to model appropriate responses and provide the necessary support and guidance for their children.

We encourage caregivers and other adults involved in the child's life to help navigate through this challenging phase of development.

0'00 Intro

0'50 My child's story

1'40 About hurting the child back

2'00 What happens when children hit and some possible reasons for it

2'47 Need for connection vand positive attention

4'15 Reaction vs response

6'15 Connection vs attention seeking

6'50 If the child is being hit by another child

8'45 What you can do when the chils hits

9'55 About adult's triggers

10' Script for yourself on how to respond

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Episode 60 on Triggers

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