Episode 031: Table Etiquette & Basic Event Manners 101

Lifting the Veil

Whether you’re attending your first wedding, hosting a formal dinner, or just trying to figure out which fork to use, etiquette isn’t just about rules—it’s about creating an atmosphere of respect and grace. And let’s face it, we’ve all had those moments where we wonder, ‘Am I doing this right?’

In this episode, we’ll unpack some of the most common, misunderstood, and often unknown etiquette tips, and general manners for attending a hosted or hosting an event.

• What's a charger? And why do I have three plates stacked on top of each other?
• What do I do with all the flatware (forks, knives, spoons, etc.) at my seat and what do I start with?
• How to know which glass is yours at your seat.
• Is it okay for me to start eating as soon as I sit down as a guest?
• When to go to the buffet.
• Gift giving: yes, you DO need to give or take a gift!
• Leave the room when asked.
• Get out of the way of the photographer.
• Vendor meals and a quite place for breaks.
• Following the instructions of the planner or the person in charge of the event.

These quick tips are sure to help you feel more confident no matter where you’re seated. And if you're guilty of any of this, no worries! We've all been there and we're here to pay that knowledge forward.