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Monique R. Shields द्वारा प्रदान की गई सामग्री. एपिसोड, ग्राफिक्स और पॉडकास्ट विवरण सहित सभी पॉडकास्ट सामग्री Monique R. Shields या उनके पॉडकास्ट प्लेटफ़ॉर्म पार्टनर द्वारा सीधे अपलोड और प्रदान की जाती है। यदि आपको लगता है कि कोई आपकी अनुमति के बिना आपके कॉपीराइट किए गए कार्य का उपयोग कर रहा है, तो आप यहां बताई गई प्रक्रिया का पालन कर सकते हैं https://hi.player.fm/legal

NEW! Click here to text Monique directly with any thoughts, feels or feedback ... seriously, it goes directly to her

In today's fast-paced world, the concept of truly resting and enjoying success often feels elusive. Many of us are caught in a cycle of hyper productivity and achievement, constantly striving for the next milestone without pausing to reflect or recharge.

Inspired by a friend's sabbatical and a compelling story from Will Smith's autobiography, I’m examining the internal struggle and unexpected discomfort that comes with stepping away from the grind.

If you're seeking ways to incorporate rest into your life, or simply curious about the journey of self-discovery and enjoyment, this episode offers valuable reflections and practical advice to help you embrace stillness and find balance. Tune in as I dive into the art of stillness and explore what it means to remove yourself from the relentless pace of life to reconnect with your true self.

MENTIONED
The Will Smith Autobiography Will by Will Smith

GEMS DROPPED
“Many ​of ​us ​have ​the ​privilege ​to ​do ​this, ​to ​actually ​take ​sabbaticals ​or ​to ​open ​a ​new ​chapter ​in ​your ​life ​where ​your ​work, ​your ​business, ​your ​profession ​is ​not ​at ​the ​center, ​at ​the ​core ​of ​your ​identity.”

“Some ​of ​us ​have ​been ​​working ​full ​time ​employees ​since ​we ​were ​very ​small ​children. ​Whether ​we ​were ​going ​elsewhere, ​outside ​of ​our ​household ​to ​work ​or ​whether ​we ​were ​energetically, ​emotionally ​laboring, ​we've ​been ​like ​many ​of ​us ​have ​been ​laboring ​for ​a ​very ​long ​time. ​And ​so ​when ​that ​threshold ​arises ​where ​it's ​time ​for ​my ​sabbatical, ​it's ​gonna ​vary.”

“Without ​the ​expressed ​belief ​that ​I ​am ​working ​towards ​a ​sabbatical, ​some ​sort ​of ​extended ​break ​to ​pull ​yourself ​away ​and ​to ​reconnect ​with ​yourself ​and ​life…whatever. I ​think ​that ​that's ​what ​we're ​quietly ​playing ​for, ​but ​I ​don't ​think ​that ​many ​of ​us ​have ​actually ​taken ​ourselves ​to ​the ​place.”

“The ​question ​is​ what ​do ​we ​actually ​think ​we ​want ​and ​what ​we ​truly ​will ​find ​on ​the ​other ​side ​of this ​freedom ​to ​rest, ​the ​stillness, ​the ​pause ​that ​we ​all ​keep ​saying ​that ​we ​want?”

“I think ​we ​focus ​a ​lot ​on, ​like, ​I ​need ​to ​have ​a ​hobby, ​I ​need ​to ​have ​fun. ​And ​I ​think ​a ​lot ​of ​that ​just ​comes ​back ​down ​to ​like ​sit ​down ​either ​with ​yourself ​or ​someone ​else, ​however ​you ​process ​out ​your ​thoughts. If ​you ​can't ​think ​of ​like ​what ​am ​I ​into? ​What ​am ​I ​interested ​in ​besides ​making ​money, ​besides ​doing, ​you ​know, ​achieving ​things ​and ​you ​know, ​like ​working, ​what ​am ​I ​into? ​​Go ​back ​to ​your ​younger ​self ​and ​think ​about ​what ​brought ​you ​delight ​and ​joy ​and ​surprise ​and ​what ​really ​intrigued ​you ​as ​a ​kid. ​What ​was ​something ​that ​you ​used ​to ​spend ​hours ​on. ​It ​may ​not ​be ​that ​exact ​thing ​today ​in ​its ​exact ​form, ​but ​some ​continuity ​of ​that ​still ​exists ​within ​you.”

“Build ​yourself ​a ​bridge ​back ​to ​yourself ​first.”

“Until ​he ​had ​had ​that ​kind ​of ​stillness ​experience ​where ​it's ​like, ​I ​have ​nowhere ​to ​go ​but ​to ​be ​here ​with ​me ​and ​to ​actually ​feel ​what ​it ​is ​that ​is ​trying ​to ​be ​felt. ​That ​is ​the ​thing ​that ​I ​think ​we ​are ​avoiding ​most.”

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Monique R. Shields द्वारा प्रदान की गई सामग्री. एपिसोड, ग्राफिक्स और पॉडकास्ट विवरण सहित सभी पॉडकास्ट सामग्री Monique R. Shields या उनके पॉडकास्ट प्लेटफ़ॉर्म पार्टनर द्वारा सीधे अपलोड और प्रदान की जाती है। यदि आपको लगता है कि कोई आपकी अनुमति के बिना आपके कॉपीराइट किए गए कार्य का उपयोग कर रहा है, तो आप यहां बताई गई प्रक्रिया का पालन कर सकते हैं https://hi.player.fm/legal

NEW! Click here to text Monique directly with any thoughts, feels or feedback ... seriously, it goes directly to her

In today's fast-paced world, the concept of truly resting and enjoying success often feels elusive. Many of us are caught in a cycle of hyper productivity and achievement, constantly striving for the next milestone without pausing to reflect or recharge.

Inspired by a friend's sabbatical and a compelling story from Will Smith's autobiography, I’m examining the internal struggle and unexpected discomfort that comes with stepping away from the grind.

If you're seeking ways to incorporate rest into your life, or simply curious about the journey of self-discovery and enjoyment, this episode offers valuable reflections and practical advice to help you embrace stillness and find balance. Tune in as I dive into the art of stillness and explore what it means to remove yourself from the relentless pace of life to reconnect with your true self.

MENTIONED
The Will Smith Autobiography Will by Will Smith

GEMS DROPPED
“Many ​of ​us ​have ​the ​privilege ​to ​do ​this, ​to ​actually ​take ​sabbaticals ​or ​to ​open ​a ​new ​chapter ​in ​your ​life ​where ​your ​work, ​your ​business, ​your ​profession ​is ​not ​at ​the ​center, ​at ​the ​core ​of ​your ​identity.”

“Some ​of ​us ​have ​been ​​working ​full ​time ​employees ​since ​we ​were ​very ​small ​children. ​Whether ​we ​were ​going ​elsewhere, ​outside ​of ​our ​household ​to ​work ​or ​whether ​we ​were ​energetically, ​emotionally ​laboring, ​we've ​been ​like ​many ​of ​us ​have ​been ​laboring ​for ​a ​very ​long ​time. ​And ​so ​when ​that ​threshold ​arises ​where ​it's ​time ​for ​my ​sabbatical, ​it's ​gonna ​vary.”

“Without ​the ​expressed ​belief ​that ​I ​am ​working ​towards ​a ​sabbatical, ​some ​sort ​of ​extended ​break ​to ​pull ​yourself ​away ​and ​to ​reconnect ​with ​yourself ​and ​life…whatever. I ​think ​that ​that's ​what ​we're ​quietly ​playing ​for, ​but ​I ​don't ​think ​that ​many ​of ​us ​have ​actually ​taken ​ourselves ​to ​the ​place.”

“The ​question ​is​ what ​do ​we ​actually ​think ​we ​want ​and ​what ​we ​truly ​will ​find ​on ​the ​other ​side ​of this ​freedom ​to ​rest, ​the ​stillness, ​the ​pause ​that ​we ​all ​keep ​saying ​that ​we ​want?”

“I think ​we ​focus ​a ​lot ​on, ​like, ​I ​need ​to ​have ​a ​hobby, ​I ​need ​to ​have ​fun. ​And ​I ​think ​a ​lot ​of ​that ​just ​comes ​back ​down ​to ​like ​sit ​down ​either ​with ​yourself ​or ​someone ​else, ​however ​you ​process ​out ​your ​thoughts. If ​you ​can't ​think ​of ​like ​what ​am ​I ​into? ​What ​am ​I ​interested ​in ​besides ​making ​money, ​besides ​doing, ​you ​know, ​achieving ​things ​and ​you ​know, ​like ​working, ​what ​am ​I ​into? ​​Go ​back ​to ​your ​younger ​self ​and ​think ​about ​what ​brought ​you ​delight ​and ​joy ​and ​surprise ​and ​what ​really ​intrigued ​you ​as ​a ​kid. ​What ​was ​something ​that ​you ​used ​to ​spend ​hours ​on. ​It ​may ​not ​be ​that ​exact ​thing ​today ​in ​its ​exact ​form, ​but ​some ​continuity ​of ​that ​still ​exists ​within ​you.”

“Build ​yourself ​a ​bridge ​back ​to ​yourself ​first.”

“Until ​he ​had ​had ​that ​kind ​of ​stillness ​experience ​where ​it's ​like, ​I ​have ​nowhere ​to ​go ​but ​to ​be ​here ​with ​me ​and ​to ​actually ​feel ​what ​it ​is ​that ​is ​trying ​to ​be ​felt. ​That ​is ​the ​thing ​that ​I ​think ​we ​are ​avoiding ​most.”

STAY IN TOUCH
Come and follow me on Instagram @moniquershields and I would love your feedback so send an email to ambition@moniquershields.com.

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