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In this conversation, I discuss the detrimental effects of self-criticism and perfectionism on mental health and productivity. By fostering healthy habits and recognizing toxic habits, individuals can build confidence and redefine their understanding of success. Ultimately, self-love and acceptance are presented as foundational elements for personal growth and fulfillment.Takeaways:Bullying yourself does not lead to success.Chronic self-criticism triggers cortisol overload, harming mental health.Self-compassion enhances productivity and resilience.Perfectionism can hinder personal growth and achievement.External validation is not a sustainable source of self-worth.Healthy habits contribute to building self-confidence.Recognizing toxic relationships is essential for self-growth.Self-love involves deep alignment and acceptance of oneself.Redefining success is necessary for true fulfillment.Mindfulness and self-acceptance are crucial for personal well-being.enjoy & dont forget to tweet/ig story me a screenshot of you listening!MY NEW WEBSITE!! Shop merch, sign up for my newsletter, book a coffee chat, & more: http://stellaraeherself.comI edit using Riverside! https://www.riverside.fm/?utm_campaign=campaign_5&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=rewardful&via=stella-holtshop my new glo up merch!! https://stellarae.myspreadshop.com/instagram http://instagram.com/stellaraepodcastlisten to and/or support the podcast: https://anchor.fm/stella-raetiktok: http://tiktok.com/@stellaraeherselftwitter: http://twitter.com/stellaraegoodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/user/show/10449999-stella-raemy fav books/products/health: https://www.amazon.com/shop/stellaraemy current filming set up:camera: https://amzn.to/4cEQiLOmicrophone: https://amzn.to/3Z2A5gctripod: https://amzn.to/3AEmxgKring light: https://amzn.to/3XxZrShbox lights: https://amzn.to/4e1Q1Ubportable light for phone: https://amzn.to/3XxZspjjoin my patreon for ad-free episodes, early access, merch discounts, behind the scenes, & more! https://www.patreon.com/stellaraepodlisten on spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2DMbeh7EqiqgROIjvW0sI9listen on apple podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stella-rae-podcast/id1255618182#stellaraepodcast Chapters00:00 Breaking the Cycle of Self-Criticism02:49 The Power of Mindfulness and Self-Compassion05:48 Building Confidence Through Healthy Habits08:59 Recognizing Toxic Relationships12:06 Redefining Success and Self-Love…

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using ChatGPT everyday is making you dumb harsh truth 11:34

11 days ago11:34

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In this conversation, I discuss the pervasive influence of AI on daily life and its potential negative effects on cognitive abilities, creativity, and human relationships. Let's talk about the importance of maintaining critical thinking skills and the role of art in reflecting human experiences. The conversation also touches on the environmental impact of AI and the need for intentional use of technology to foster personal growth and empathy.Takeaways:AI is becoming ubiquitous in our daily lives.Over-reliance on AI can lead to cognitive decline.Creativity and problem-solving skills are at risk due to outsourcing thinking.Art is a vital reflection of the human experience.AI-generated content lacks the personal touch of human creativity.The environmental impact of AI is significant and concerning.Education and knowledge are essential for personal empowerment.Our brains are adaptable and can be trained to improve cognitive skills.Mindfulness and intentionality are crucial in using technology.Empathy is essential for healthy human relationships. Enjoy & dont forget to tweet/ig story me a screenshot of you listening!Robots and the People Who Love Them: Holding on to Our Humanity in an Age of Social Robots by Eve Herold book mentioned: https://amzn.to/4jUl6gtMY NEW WEBSITE!! Shop merch, sign up for my newsletter, book a coffee chat, & more: http://stellaraeherself.comI edit using Riverside! https://www.riverside.fm/?utm_campaign=campaign_5&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=rewardful&via=stella-holtshop my new glo up merch!! https://stellarae.myspreadshop.com/instagram http://instagram.com/stellaraepodcastlisten to and/or support the podcast: https://anchor.fm/stella-raetiktok: http://tiktok.com/@stellaraeherselftwitter: http://twitter.com/stellaraegoodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/user/show/10449999-stella-raemy fav books/products/health: https://www.amazon.com/shop/stellaraemy current filming set up:camera: https://amzn.to/4cEQiLOmicrophone: https://amzn.to/3Z2A5gctripod: https://amzn.to/3AEmxgKring light: https://amzn.to/3XxZrShbox lights: https://amzn.to/4e1Q1Ubportable light for phone: https://amzn.to/3XxZspjjoin my patreon for ad-free episodes, early access, merch discounts, behind the scenes, & more! https://www.patreon.com/stellaraepodlisten on spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2DMbeh7EqiqgROIjvW0sI9listen on apple podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stella-rae-podcast/id1255618182Chapters00:00 The Rise of AI and Its Impact on Cognitive Function02:53 The Role of AI in Creativity and Art06:06 AI and Human Relationships: A Double-Edged Sword08:56 Cultivating Critical Thinking in an AI World#StellaRaePodcast…

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you should NOT aspire to be a stay-at-home girlfriend, and here’s why 14:48

18 days ago14:48

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The stay-at-home girlfriend trend might look aesthetic on TikTok, but let’s talk about the reality. 👀 In this episode, we’re diving into why romanticizing financial dependence isn’t as cute as it seems—and how this dynamic can actually hold you back. We’ll break down the history of women’s financial independence, the risks of relying on a partner, and why your dream life should be built on your terms. 💅✨🔹 The real reason this trend is so appealing🔹 The hidden risks of financial dependence🔹 The history & science of why this model isn’t good for women🔹 How to romanticize your own life without losing your independence🔹 The key to a high-value, fulfilling lifestyleWhether you’re in your soft girl era or your boss-up era, this episode will help you make empowered, intentional choices for your future. 🎧 Tap play and let’s get into it! 💖🔥#stayathomegirlfriend #feminineenergy #levelup #selfrespect #independentwoman #datingadvice #podcastenjoy & dont forget to tweet/ig story me a screenshot of you listening!MY NEW WEBSITE!! Shop merch, sign up for my newsletter, book a coffee chat, & more: http://stellaraeherself.comI edit using Riverside! https://www.riverside.fm/?utm_campaign=campaign_5&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=rewardful&via=stella-holtshop my new glo up merch!! https://stellarae.myspreadshop.com/instagram http://instagram.com/stellaraepodcastlisten to and/or support the podcast: https://anchor.fm/stella-raetiktok: http://tiktok.com/@stellaraeherselftwitter: http://twitter.com/stellaraegoodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/user/show/10449999-stella-raemy fav books/products/health: https://www.amazon.com/shop/stellaraemy current filming set up:camera: https://amzn.to/4cEQiLOmicrophone: https://amzn.to/3Z2A5gctripod: https://amzn.to/3AEmxgKring light: https://amzn.to/3XxZrShbox lights: https://amzn.to/4e1Q1Ubportable light for phone: https://amzn.to/3XxZspjjoin my patreon for ad-free episodes, early access, merch discounts, behind the scenes, & more! https://www.patreon.com/stellaraepodlisten on spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2DMbeh7EqiqgROIjvW0sI9listen on apple podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stella-rae-podcast/id1255618182Chapters00:00 The Illusion of the Stay-at-Home Aesthetic02:56 Historical Context of Women's Roles05:53 The Importance of Financial Independence09:12 Navigating Modern Relationships11:49 Self-Identity and Personal Fulfillment#StellaRaePodcast…

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you’re not a giver, you lack boundaries and self-respect 14:01

25 days ago14:01

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Are you over-giving and calling it kindness? 🤔 In this episode, we’re breaking down why you might feel drained, unappreciated, and stuck in a cycle of people-pleasing. From societal expectations to the importance of boundaries, it’s time to reclaim your self-worth and stop confusing over-giving with generosity. 💅 Get ready for some tough love and actionable tips to level up your energy, boundaries, and life. 💕 Hit play now and start respecting yourself first! 🎙️ Enjoy & dont forget to tweet/ig story me a screenshot of you listening! MY NEW WEBSITE!! Shop merch, sign up for my newsletter, book a coffee chat, & more: http://stellaraeherself.com I edit using Riverside! https://www.riverside.fm/?utm_campaign=campaign_5&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=rewardful&via=stella-holt shop my new glo up merch!! https://stellarae.myspreadshop.com/ instagram http://instagram.com/stellaraepodcast listen to and/or support the podcast: https://anchor.fm/stella-rae tiktok: http://tiktok.com/@stellaraeherself twitter: http://twitter.com/stellarae goodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/user/show/10449999-stella-rae my fav books/products/health: https://www.amazon.com/shop/stellarae my current filming set up: camera: https://amzn.to/4cEQiLO microphone: https://amzn.to/3Z2A5gc tripod: https://amzn.to/3AEmxgK ring light: https://amzn.to/3XxZrSh box lights: https://amzn.to/4e1Q1Ub portable light for phone: https://amzn.to/3XxZspj join my patreon for ad-free episodes, early access, merch discounts, behind the scenes, & more! https://www.patreon.com/stellaraepod listen on spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2DMbeh7EqiqgROIjvW0sI9 listen on apple podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stella-rae-podcast/id1255618182 00:00 The Dilemma of Over-Giving 03:08 Societal Expectations and Self-Worth 06:00 The Consequences of People Pleasing 08:48 Setting Boundaries and Saying No 12:03 Empowerment Through Self-Respect #StellaRaePodcast…

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stop doing these things NOW if you want to level up in 2025 18:05

5 weeks ago18:05

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Are you ready to leave bad habits behind and step into your best self in 2025? 🌟 In this episode, we’re breaking down the habits and mindsets that are holding you back and replacing them with actionable strategies for self-improvement and success. From identifying toxic patterns to creating a clear vision for your future, this is your ultimate guide to leveling up in 2025. ✨ Key Topics Covered: (0:00) Breaking Bad Habits for Self-Improvement: Identify what’s holding you back and learn how to replace negative behaviors with habits that empower and uplift you. (13:10) Creating a Vision for Your Future: Define your goals, align your actions, and build the blueprint for the life you’ve always dreamed of. ✨ Takeaways You’ll Love: 1️⃣ Stop letting toxic habits drain your energy and focus. 2️⃣ Learn how to create realistic, actionable goals that align with your higher self. 3️⃣ Build a strong foundation for personal growth and transformation in the new year. 💌 Let’s Glow Together: What’s one habit you’re leaving behind in 2024? Share in the comments! Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share this episode with anyone ready to level up in 2025. #LevelUp2025 #PersonalGrowth #SelfImprovement #BadHabits #VisionBoard #NewYearNewMe enjoy & dont forget to tweet/ig story me a screenshot of you listening! MY NEW WEBSITE!! Shop merch, sign up for my newsletter, book a coffee chat, & more: http://stellaraeherself.com I edit using Riverside! https://www.riverside.fm/?utm_campaign=campaign_5&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=rewardful&via=stella-holt shop my new glo up merch!! https://stellarae.myspreadshop.com/ instagram http://instagram.com/stellaraepodcast listen to and/or support the podcast: https://anchor.fm/stella-rae tiktok: http://tiktok.com/@stellaraeherself twitter: http://twitter.com/stellarae goodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/user/show/10449999-stella-rae my fav books/products/health: https://www.amazon.com/shop/stellarae my current filming set up: camera: https://amzn.to/4cEQiLO microphone: https://amzn.to/3Z2A5gc tripod: https://amzn.to/3AEmxgK ring light: https://amzn.to/3XxZrSh box lights: https://amzn.to/4e1Q1Ub portable light for phone: https://amzn.to/3XxZspj join my patreon for ad-free episodes, early access, merch discounts, behind the scenes, & more! https://www.patreon.com/stellaraepod listen on spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2DMbeh7EqiqgROIjvW0sI9 listen on apple podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stella-rae-podcast/id1255618182 #StellaRaePodcast…

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this is why your dating life sucks tough love 17:33

6 weeks ago17:33

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Is your dating life feeling like a never-ending cycle of bad dates and frustration? 💔 In this episode, we’re diving into tough love and actionable advice to help you level up your approach to relationships. From prioritizing yourself to fixing your dating app strategy, this episode is packed with tips to transform your love life and break free from unproductive patterns. ✨ Key Takeaways: 1️⃣ Put yourself first—your goals and standards matter. 2️⃣ Recognize and address red flags early. 3️⃣ Shift your mindset to embrace dating as a growth experience. 4️⃣ Balance standards with realistic expectations. 5️⃣ Heal, reflect, and enjoy the journey to better connections. 💌 Let’s Chat: Have you ever fallen for someone’s “potential” instead of their reality? Share your dating lessons in the comments! And don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share this episode with your besties who need this tough-love pep talk! Enjoy & dont forget to tweet/ig story me a screenshot of you listening! The Cut article referenced: https://www.thecut.com/article/tiktok-videos-single-women-crying.html MY NEW WEBSITE!! Shop merch, sign up for my newsletter, book a coffee chat, & more: http://stellaraeherself.com shop my new glo up merch!! https://stellarae.myspreadshop.com/ instagram http://instagram.com/stellaraepodcast listen to and/or support the podcast: https://anchor.fm/stella-rae tiktok: http://tiktok.com/@stellaraeherself twitter: http://twitter.com/stellarae goodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/user/show/10449999-stella-rae my fav books/products/health: https://www.amazon.com/shop/stellarae my current filming set up: camera: https://amzn.to/4cEQiLO microphone: https://amzn.to/3Z2A5gc tripod: https://amzn.to/3AEmxgK ring light: https://amzn.to/3XxZrSh box lights: https://amzn.to/4e1Q1Ub portable light for phone: https://amzn.to/3XxZspj join my patreon for ad-free episodes, early access, merch discounts, behind the scenes, & more! https://www.patreon.com/stellaraepod listen on spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2DMbeh7EqiqgROIjvW0sI9 listen on apple podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stella-rae-podcast/id1255618182 how i make my shorts using AI: https://klap.app/?via=stella #stellaraepodcast 00:00 Facing the Truth in Dating 01:26 Actions Over Words 03:04 Recognizing Red Flags 05:56 Decentering Men in Relationships 08:47 Building Confidence and Energy 12:01 The Grass Isn't Always Greener 14:47 Focusing on Self and Happiness…

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you can't focus on anything & feel lonely because you won’t put that phone down 21:07

7 weeks ago21:07

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Feeling more connected in 2025 starts with breaking free from loneliness—an epidemic that’s impacting millions. In this episode, we’re spilling the tea on why loneliness is as bad as smoking 15 cigarettes a day and how tech, social media, and modern life are making us feel more isolated than ever. But don’t worry, babe—we’ve got solutions. 💕 From setting “no-scroll zones” to practicing micro-kindness and building a social self-care routine, we’re giving you practical, girlie-approved tips to build deeper connections and thrive in your relationships. ✨ Topics Covered: How loneliness affects your health (yes, it’s that serious) Why scrolling isn’t connecting and how to unplug with purpose Easy ways to form stronger friendships and communities The ripple effect of kindness and how it can transform your day Tips to set boundaries with tech and create space for real connections This isn’t just about feeling less lonely—it’s about creating a life full of genuine relationships and emotional fulfillment. Let’s connect and glow up together! 🫶 🎧 Tune in now to take the first step toward a more connected 2025! Enjoy & dont forget to tweet/ig story me a screenshot of you listening! Study referenced: https://www.hhs.gov/sites/default/files/surgeon-general-social-connection-advisory.pdf MY NEW WEBSITE!! Shop merch, sign up for my newsletter, book a coffee chat, & more: http://stellaraeherself.com shop my new glo up merch!! https://stellarae.myspreadshop.com/ instagram http://instagram.com/stellaraepodcast listen to and/or support the podcast: https://anchor.fm/stella-rae tiktok: http://tiktok.com/@stellaraeherself twitter: http://twitter.com/stellarae goodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/user/show/10449999-stella-rae my fav books/products/health: https://www.amazon.com/shop/stellarae my current filming set up: camera: https://amzn.to/4cEQiLO microphone: https://amzn.to/3Z2A5gc tripod: https://amzn.to/3AEmxgK ring light: https://amzn.to/3XxZrSh box lights: https://amzn.to/4e1Q1Ub portable light for phone: https://amzn.to/3XxZspj join my patreon for ad-free episodes, early access, merch discounts, behind the scenes, & more! https://www.patreon.com/stellaraepod listen on spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2DMbeh7EqiqgROIjvW0sI9 listen on apple podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stella-rae-podcast/id1255618182 #stellaraepodcast 00:00 The Impact of Loneliness on Health 03:06 Social Media's Role in Connection and Isolation 05:52 Strategies for Enhancing Cognitive Function 09:03 Building Meaningful Connections 11:46 Navigating Social Interactions 15:01 Reframing Discomfort for Growth 17:57 Empowerment Through Self-Discovery…

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here’s your plan to leveling up in 2025 so hard you scare yourself 26:17

8 weeks ago26:17

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Ready to make 2025 your year? In this episode, I’m giving you the ultimate step-by-step guide to leveling up your life in ways that will leave you shocked (in the best way)! 💅 From mindset shifts to actionable habits, we’re covering everything you need to hit your goals, glow up, and step into your best self. Enjoy & dont forget to tweet/ig story me a screenshot of you listening! MY NEW WEBSITE!! Shop merch, sign up for my newsletter, book a coffee chat, & more: http://stellaraeherself.comshop my new glo up merch!! https://stellarae.myspreadshop.com/instagram http://instagram.com/stellaraepodcastlisten to and/or support the podcast: https://anchor.fm/stella-raetiktok: http://tiktok.com/@stellaraeherselftwitter: http://twitter.com/stellaraegoodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/user/show/10449999-stella-raemy fav books/products/health: https://www.amazon.com/shop/stellaraemy current filming set up:camera: https://amzn.to/4cEQiLOmicrophone: https://amzn.to/3Z2A5gctripod: https://amzn.to/3AEmxgKring light: https://amzn.to/3XxZrShbox lights: https://amzn.to/4e1Q1Ubportable light for phone: https://amzn.to/3XxZspjjoin my patreon for ad-free episodes, early access, merch discounts, behind the scenes, & more! https://www.patreon.com/stellaraepodlisten on spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2DMbeh7EqiqgROIjvW0sI9listen on apple podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stella-rae-podcast/id1255618182how i make my shorts using AI: https://klap.app/?via=stella#stellaraepodcast 00:00 - 01:42 welcome to the glo up01:42 - 03:57 planning for change03:57 - 07:24 embracing the uncomfortable nature of change07:24 - 10:42 setting achievable daily goals & habits10:42 - 13:24 Project You: investing into yourself13:24 - 16:38 reflecting on this past year to do better this year16:38 - 23:17 the power of trying new things23:17 - 26:17 my favorite books I read in 2024…

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2024 rewind: the stella rae podcast’s best moments 29:28

9 weeks ago29:28

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Hey everyone! Join me as we take a look back at the most iconic and inspiring LOL-moments from the Stella Rae Podcast in 2024! 🎙️ From life-changing advice to not getting the limes, this episode is packed with highlights you won’t want to miss. 💌 Let’s Connect: Comment your favorite moment from the podcast this year and share what you’re most excited for in 2025. Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and leave a review if you’ve loved the show this year! #StellaRaePodcast #PodcastHighlights #2024Rewind #BestMoments2024 #PodcastRecap #IconicConversations #PodcastForWomen enjoy & dont forget to tweet/ig story me a screenshot of you listening! MY NEW WEBSITE!! Shop merch, sign up for my newsletter, book a coffee chat, & more: http://stellaraeherself.com shop my new glo up merch!! https://stellarae.myspreadshop.com/ instagram http://instagram.com/stellaraepodcast listen to and/or support the podcast: https://anchor.fm/stella-rae tiktok: http://tiktok.com/@stellaraeherself twitter: http://twitter.com/stellarae goodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/user/show/10449999-stella-rae my fav books/products/health: https://www.amazon.com/shop/stellarae my current filming set up: camera: https://amzn.to/4cEQiLO microphone: https://amzn.to/3Z2A5gc tripod: https://amzn.to/3AEmxgK ring light: https://amzn.to/3XxZrSh box lights: https://amzn.to/4e1Q1Ub portable light for phone: https://amzn.to/3XxZspj join my patreon for ad-free episodes, early access, merch discounts, behind the scenes, & more! https://www.patreon.com/stellaraepod listen on spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2DMbeh7EqiqgROIjvW0sI9 listen on apple podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stella-rae-podcast/id1255618182 00:00 - 01:49 what a year it's been 01:49 - 02:48 why am i the trisha paytas latina meme today 02:48 - 05:29 tantalizing offer but im gonna have to pass 05:29 - 18:15 can you get the limes? 18:15 - 22:36 nobody reads 22:36 - 28:46 anxiety tips and the best mindset advice for 2025 28:46 - 29:26 last thoughts how i make my shorts using AI: https://klap.app/?via=stella #StellaRaePodcast…

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things we aren't bringing into 2025 (rant) 42:32

10 weeks ago42:32

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As we gear up for 2025, it’s time to leave certain habits, mindsets, and situations in the past. In this episode, we’re calling out the things that no longer serve us and laying the groundwork for a better year ahead. From letting go of toxic cycles to prioritizing actions over empty words, this episode is all about stepping into your power and leaving the nonsense behind.enjoy & dont forget to tweet/ig story me a screenshot of you listening! MY NEW WEBSITE!! Shop merch, sign up for my newsletter, book a coffee chat, & more: http://stellaraeherself.com shop my new glo up merch!! https://stellarae.myspreadshop.com/ instagram http://instagram.com/stellaraepodcast listen to and/or support the podcast: https://anchor.fm/stella-rae tiktok: http://tiktok.com/@stellaraeherself twitter: http://twitter.com/stellarae goodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/user/show/10449999-stella-rae my fav books/products/health: https://www.amazon.com/shop/stellarae my current filming set up: camera: https://amzn.to/4cEQiLO microphone: https://amzn.to/3Z2A5gc tripod: https://amzn.to/3AEmxgK ring light: https://amzn.to/3XxZrSh box lights: https://amzn.to/4e1Q1Ub portable light for phone: https://amzn.to/3XxZspj join my patreon for ad-free episodes, early access, merch discounts, behind the scenes, & more! https://www.patreon.com/stellaraepod listen on spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2DMbeh7EqiqgROIjvW0sI9 listen on apple podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stella-rae-podcast/id1255618182 how i make my shorts using AI: https://klap.app/?via=stella #stellaraepodcast 00:00 - 00:28 intro00:28 - 06:08 don't block & unblock06:08 - 08:46 don't be dumb08:46 - 19:51 don't fall for the scams19:51 - 31:56 the new trophy wife, god fearing men, actions over words31:56 - 35:18 don't be delusional35:18 - 42:13 don't decenter literally everything42:13 - 42:33 last thoughts…

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your 2025 glo-up starts now: energy, mindset & relationship hacks 26:51

12 weeks ago26:51

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Ready to step into your best self in 2025? In this episode, we’re talking about how to reset your energy, shift your mindset, and approach relationships with clarity and confidence. From doing an energy audit to exploring modern soulmate beliefs, this is your ultimate guide to prioritizing yourself and creating a life that aligns with your goals. 💫 What You’ll Learn: ✨ How to conduct an energy audit and start the year strong ✨ Why prioritizing yourself leads to better decision-making ✨ How to avoid the "shoulda, woulda, coulda" mind trap ✨ Exploring the idea of soulmates and modern relationships ✨ How to shift your energy and avoid coming across as entitled enjoy & dont forget to tweet/ig story me a screenshot of you listening! MY NEW WEBSITE!! Shop merch, sign up for my newsletter, book a coffee chat, & more: http://stellaraeherself.com shop my new glo up merch!! https://stellarae.myspreadshop.com/ instagram http://instagram.com/stellaraepodcast listen to and/or support the podcast: https://anchor.fm/stella-rae tiktok: http://tiktok.com/@stellaraeherself twitter: http://twitter.com/stellarae goodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/user/show/10449999-stella-rae my fav books/products/health: https://www.amazon.com/shop/stellarae my current filming set up: camera: https://amzn.to/4cEQiLO microphone: https://amzn.to/3Z2A5gc tripod: https://amzn.to/3AEmxgK ring light: https://amzn.to/3XxZrSh box lights: https://amzn.to/4e1Q1Ub portable light for phone: https://amzn.to/3XxZspj join my patreon for ad-free episodes, early access, merch discounts, behind the scenes, & more! https://www.patreon.com/stellaraepod listen on spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2DMbeh7EqiqgROIjvW0sI9 listen on apple podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stella-rae-podcast/id1255618182 how i make my shorts using AI: https://klap.app/?via=stella #stellaraepodcast 00:00 - 02:46 – How to Do an Energy Audit to Start 2025 Strong 02:46 - 06:42 – Prioritizing Yourself: Making Decisions That Align with Your Goals 06:42 - 12:29 – Breaking Free from the "Shoulda, Woulda, Coulda" Mindset 12:29 - 23:21 – Is Your Soulmate Really a Man? Exploring Modern Relationship Beliefs 23:21 - 26:12 – How to Stop Coming Across as Entitled and Shift Your Energy 26:12 - 26:49 – Final Thoughts: Wrapping Up Your Glo-Up Blueprint for 2025…

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what to do when you feel unmotivated during the holidays, & reacting to a viral dating horror story 23:43

13 weeks ago23:43

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MERCH IS 25% OFF + FREE SHIPPING UNTIL DEC 8!!! Use code STELLARAE https://stellarae.myspreadshop.com/ Feeling the holiday blues? Between seasonal burnout, family expectations, and online dating chaos, it can feel like too much! In this episode, we’re tackling the dreaded holiday slump and sharing tips to stay energized, motivated, and stress-free during the busiest time of year. Plus, I’m spilling tea on Hinge, online dating horror stories, and navigating the dating world this holiday season. 🎄💌 What You’ll Learn: ✨ How to identify and combat seasonal burnout ✨ Self-care strategies to recharge and stay focused ✨ Tips for managing holiday stress and family dynamics ✨ How to avoid overcommitting while still enjoying the season ✨ Online dating tips, viral horror stories, and finding love in the digital age enjoy & dont forget to tweet/ig story me a screenshot of you listening! MY NEW WEBSITE!! Shop merch, sign up for my newsletter, book a coffee chat, & more: http://stellaraeherself.com shop my new glo up merch!! https://stellarae.myspreadshop.com/ instagram http://instagram.com/stellaraepodcast listen to and/or support the podcast: https://anchor.fm/stella-rae tiktok: http://tiktok.com/@stellaraeherself twitter: http://twitter.com/stellarae goodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/user/show/10449999-stella-rae my fav books/products/health: https://www.amazon.com/shop/stellarae my current filming set up: camera: https://amzn.to/4cEQiLO microphone: https://amzn.to/3Z2A5gc tripod: https://amzn.to/3AEmxgK ring light: https://amzn.to/3XxZrSh box lights: https://amzn.to/4e1Q1Ub portable light for phone: https://amzn.to/3XxZspj join my patreon for ad-free episodes, early access, merch discounts, behind the scenes, & more! https://www.patreon.com/stellaraepod listen on spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2DMbeh7EqiqgROIjvW0sI9 listen on apple podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stella-rae-podcast/id1255618182 how i make my shorts using AI: https://klap.app/?via=stella #stellaraepodcast 00:00 - 00:48 – Kicking Off December: Embracing the First Week of the Month 00:48 - 02:24 – Why December Can Feel Overwhelming: Managing Year-End Stress 02:24 - 10:10 – Relaxation & Self-Care: Preparing to End the Year Strong and Start Fresh in 2025 10:10 - 20:14 – Dating App Horror Story: Is Online Dating Worth It? 20:14 - 23:42 – Building Your Own Opinions & Beliefs: Staying True to Yourself…

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becoming THAT GIRL in 2025: the habits & mindset you need 34:53

14 weeks ago34:53

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Ready to become your best self in 2025? In this episode, we’re diving deep into the habits, mindset shifts, and practical tips to embody THAT GIRL energy. From leveling up your routines to breaking toxic cycles and embracing curiosity over judgment, this episode is your ultimate guide to stepping into your power with confidence and ease. 🌟 enjoy & dont forget to tweet/ig story me a screenshot of you listening! 💡 What You’ll Learn: The key habits and mindset shifts that make leveling up easy Why focusing on joy and curiosity changes everything How to break free from toxic cycles and embrace your best self Tips to embody confidence and own your glow-up ✨ Whether you’re starting fresh or building on your growth, this episode will inspire you to live intentionally and step into your power in 2025. 🌸 Like, subscribe, and leave a comment to join the conversation! #BecomingThatGirl #GlowUp2025 #LevelUpMindset #HabitsForSuccess #PersonalGrowthJourney #SelfImprovementPodcast MY NEW WEBSITE!! Shop merch, sign up for my newsletter, book a coffee chat, & more: http://stellaraeherself.com shop my new glo up merch!! https://stellarae.myspreadshop.com/ 🌸follow me! instagram http://instagram.com/stellaraepodcast listen to and/or support the podcast: https://anchor.fm/stella-rae tiktok: http://tiktok.com/@stellaraeherself twitter: http://twitter.com/stellarae goodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/user/show/10449999-stella-rae my fav books/products/health: https://www.amazon.com/shop/stellarae 🌸my current filming set up: camera: https://amzn.to/4cEQiLO microphone: https://amzn.to/3Z2A5gc tripod: https://amzn.to/3AEmxgK ring light: https://amzn.to/3XxZrSh box lights: https://amzn.to/4e1Q1Ub portable light for phone: https://amzn.to/3XxZspj join my patreon for ad-free episodes, early access, merch discounts, behind the scenes, & more! https://www.patreon.com/stellaraepod listen on spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2DMbeh7EqiqgROIjvW0sI9 listen on apple podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stella-rae-podcast/id1255618182 how i make my shorts using AI: https://klap.app/?via=stella #stellaraepodcast 00:00 - 01:15 happy thanksgiving & im grateful for you!! 01:15 - 06:05 the ultimate key to leveling up & becoming your best self 06:05 - 09:33 choosing the lightest task & making enjoyment a priority 09:33 - 10:26 practicing curiosity rather than judgement 10:26 - 21:44 my practical tips & tricks for leveling up 21:44 - 23:38 when u look so sexy it's awkward 23:38 - 34:17 the new trophy wife situation, victim blaming, perpetuating vs breaking cycles 32:17 - 34:51 last thoughts…

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the 4B movement, sprinkle sprinkle, & decentering men in 2025 22:04

14 weeks ago22:04

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Hey yall! In this episode, we dive into the powerful 4B Feminist Movement and its role in empowering women to take control of their lives. From discussing the impact of recent election results to understanding the importance of releasing anger and embracing personal growth, we cover it all. Plus, we touch on how dating in today’s climate fits into the bigger picture of self-empowerment. Timestamps: 00:00 - 07:58 – Election Results, Living in Fear, and the Struggles of Being a Woman in Today's Climate 07:58 - 13:58 – What is the 4B Feminist Movement, & My Thoughts On It 13:58 - 20:24 – How to Release Anger: Empowering Yourself to Act on It 20:24 - 22:02 – Last Thoughts: What You Can Do Now and How to Relax Amidst It All 🎧 Key Takeaways: Learn about the 4B movement and its role in feminist empowerment How to process and release anger for personal growth Tips for staying empowered and navigating challenges in dating and relationships today Practical advice for dealing with societal pressures and how to relax when things feel overwhelming 🔥 Want to be part of the change? Watch this episode for inspiration on how to empower yourself and navigate modern challenges with confidence. Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more content on empowerment, feminism, and personal growth!My thoughts on The New Trophy Wife situation (i recorded this episode before the news came out smh): https://www.tiktok.com/@stellaraeherself/video/7439820697498586414Shera Seven: https://www.youtube.com/@SheRaSeven1 #4BMovement #Feminism #WomenEmpowerment #DatingIn2024 #PersonalGrowth #AngerRelease #EmpowermentPodcastenjoy & dont forget to tweet/ig story me a screenshot of you listening! MY NEW WEBSITE!! Shop merch, sign up for my newsletter, book a coffee chat, & more: http://stellaraeherself.com shop my new glo up merch!! https://stellarae.myspreadshop.com/ instagram http://instagram.com/stellaraepodcast listen to and/or support the podcast: https://anchor.fm/stella-rae tiktok: http://tiktok.com/@stellaraeherself twitter: http://twitter.com/stellarae goodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/user/show/10449999-stella-rae my fav books/products/health: https://www.amazon.com/shop/stellarae my current filming set up: camera: https://amzn.to/4cEQiLO microphone: https://amzn.to/3Z2A5gc tripod: https://amzn.to/3AEmxgK ring light: https://amzn.to/3XxZrSh box lights: https://amzn.to/4e1Q1Ub portable light for phone: https://amzn.to/3XxZspj join my patreon for ad-free episodes, early access, merch discounts, behind the scenes, & more! https://www.patreon.com/stellaraepod listen on spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2DMbeh7EqiqgROIjvW0sI9 listen on apple podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stella-rae-podcast/id1255618182 how i make my shorts using AI: https://klap.app/?via=stella #StellaRaePodcast…

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a conversation on healing and resilience with Sonia Elsie (trigger warning) 1:35:06

16 weeks ago1:35:06