What If Your Love Problems Are All Your Fault? Summer of Love 2022 Sendoff

Sex, Love & Elephants with Dr. Cheryl

“Dr. Cheryl, we fight all the time and constantly blame one another… Is there any hope for our relationship?” Today, I’m talking all about negative sentiment override. It’s a tough, sad, painful topic and so many of us have experienced it in our relationships, whether or not we knew how to put a name to it. But there is hope—as long as both partners are willing to take 100% responsibility.

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In This Episode, You Will Learn:

• People who are refusing to take any responsibility for the relationship problems have very little hope of long-term relationship success (04:07)
• If you are busy blaming your partner for their BS, you're putting the power of your relationship’s success in someone else’s hands (07:21)
• The minefield of negative sentiment can override your relationship (12:24)
• When you are in negative sentiment override, it’s hard to remember who you fell in love with (18:04)
• If both partners are at least a little bit willing to work on accepting responsibility, there is hope (27:35)
• This week’s LoveByte (28:29)

Q&A:

My partner calls me names and disrespects me—how can I get them to change their behavior? You need to stop blaming your partner for your relationship’s failure and take responsibility yourself. Check out my Become Passion- Create Love That Lasts a Lifetime to learn how to stop blaming others and to start taking responsibility for your relationship issues.

People mentioned:

John Gottman

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