Ever feel torn between wanting closeness and needing space? In this episode of Speak Honest, We dive into the complexities of disorganized attachment, or what I call “The Pendulum Swing Dance.” Through real-life examples and compassionate insights, we will unpack why disorganized attachment leads to a push-pull dynamic in relationships, where close…

Ever felt like your partner just needs too much space, or maybe you're the one pulling away when things get too close? In today’s episode of Speak Honest, we’re diving into the fascinating rhythm of avoidant attachment—what I like to call “The Solo Tango.” Avoidant attachment is all about independence, self-reliance, and finding comfort in a little…

Do you ever feel like you’re walking a tightrope in your relationships, always seeking reassurance but never quite feeling secure? In this episode of Speak Honest, we’re diving into Anxious Attachment—what I like to call the Salsa of Uncertainty. We’ll explore why it’s so hard to find stability and what steps you can take to bring more calm and bal…

Ever feel like big relationship changes are throwing your emotions all over the place? Whether you're moving in with someone or moving on from a breakup, these transitions can feel like they’re turning your world upside down. In this episode, we break down why these changes feel so intense and how you can not only survive them but actually thrive i…

Have you ever found yourself pushing away the very love and support you've always wanted? In this episode, I sit down with Carol, a member of the Relationship Reboot Program, as we explore her journey to discovering why she struggles to accept love and compliments from her husband. Together, we uncover the deep-rooted attachment wounds and limiting…

Ever silently fumed because your partner didn’t do something you never actually asked them to do? (Yep, we’ve all been there!) This episode is pulled straight from one of our amazing weekly Support Sessions in the Facebook group, where we dove into the three sneaky types of expectations—explicit, implicit, and covert—that can really mess with your …

Curious about what it looks like at the start of a transformational journey? In this episode, we get a before look at Amanda, a member of my 12-week Relationship Reboot Program. During this coaching call, Amanda opens up about her struggle with triggers and negative spirals that affect her communication. We discuss how the program will help her bui…

Are you holding back from being truly vulnerable in your relationships out of fear of rejection or being misunderstood? In this episode of Speak Honest, I dive deep into why vulnerability can feel so terrifying and how avoiding it might be keeping you from the meaningful relationships you truly want. I share practical steps for getting clear on you…

Do you ever feel like you're holding yourself back from success? In this powerful coaching session, I dive deep with Martie to explore the real reasons behind her struggle with self-sabotage. Together, we uncover whether her actions are truly sabotaging her or if they’re a form of self-protection. By examining her subconscious fears and desires, Ma…

Are you tired of those moments when your partner says or does something that sends you into a spiral, but you don’t know why? In this episode, we dive deep into understanding relationship triggers—those emotional reactions that feel so out of proportion to the situation at hand. I guide you through recognizing your triggers, understanding their roo…

Are you struggling with grief that feels like it won’t let go, whether it’s from losing someone or ending a relationship? In this episode, we talk with Chelsea Ohlemiller about the many faces of grief. From losing her mother and the journey to healing, to understanding how grief can affect every aspect of your life—Chelsea brings both vulnerability…

Why do we tell ourselves stories that only bring us pain? In this episode of Speak Honest, I dive deep into some gut-wrenching listener questions about love, breakups, and why it feels like your ex is thriving while you're stuck in heartache. We break down the stories we tell ourselves, challenge those limiting beliefs, and shift the focus back on …

Are you ready to unlock the power of movement for healing and self-discovery? In this episode of Speak Honest, I chat with Cheryl Killilea , a certified personal trainer and trauma-informed yoga instructor, about how yoga and movement can help release stored emotions and improve our mental and emotional health. Cheryl shares insights on how differe…

Ever feel like setting boundaries makes you the "bad guy" in your relationships? Let's change that! In this episode of "Speak Honest," we're diving into the real talk about boundaries—what they are, why they matter, and how we can set them without feeling like we're letting everyone down. We get into the nitty-gritty of setting boundaries in our ev…

Ever catch yourself wondering if you’re missing some major red flags in your relationships? Or maybe you’ve noticed a few but weren’t quite sure what to do next? In today’s episode, we’re diving into the world of red flags—what they really mean, how to spot them, and most importantly, how to handle them like a pro without all the stress! You might …

Ever find yourself torn between two conflicting desires? In this episode, I sit down with Lena, who beautifully navigates the complexities of wanting both certainty and adventure in her life. We explore how understanding your individual needs can help you create balance, even when those needs seem to pull you in different directions. You might want…

Have you ever wondered how your attachment style might be shaping the way you give and receive love? In this episode of Speak Honest, Jenn dives into the fascinating connection between attachment styles and love languages. Whether you're familiar with these concepts or just getting started, Jenn explores how understanding both can lead to healthier…

Ever wondered what it takes to land a TEDx talk and own that red dot 🔴? In this episode, Jenn Noble dives into her TEDx journey alongside her friend, Jordan Harmon. They share their unique experiences from the initial application to the aftermath of their talks, highlighting how Toastmasters played a crucial role in their preparation. Whether you'r…

Have you ever felt a knot in your stomach because you fear you've upset someone? In this episode of Speak Honest, I have a heartfelt conversation with Jo, a long-time client, about her ongoing struggle with the fear of upsetting others. Despite doing extensive work on her self-worth and understanding her core wounds, Jo still finds herself trapped …

Have you ever felt overwhelmed by your emotions and struggled to manage intense feelings? In today's short episode of Speak Honest, we dive into the fascinating world of somatic experiencing. Discover the history behind this powerful technique, why it works, and how you can start practicing it to better manage your emotions. You might want to liste…

Have you ever wondered if your relationship struggles are due to your attachment style or your partner's behavior? In today's episode, we dive deep into this complex issue with Kim, who is grappling with whether her triggers stem from her attachment style or her partner's actions. Join us as we explore the nuances of attachment styles, communicatio…

Are you struggling to figure out if you lean more anxious or dismissive in your attachment style? In this episode of Speak Honest, I’m answering a listener’s question about Disorganized Attachment, also known as Fearful Avoidant attachment. We'll explore how this attachment style can cause you to swing between anxious and dismissive tendencies base…

Are you ready to uncover how attachment styles can transform your personal growth and relationships? On this week's podcast, I chat with Bev Mitelman, a certified integrated attachment coach. Bev takes us through her fascinating journey from professional development to becoming an attachment coach. This podcast might be for you if... You want to un…

Have you ever wondered how much your life can change in a decade? In this special episode of Speak Honest, I reflect on my journey from a tumultuous time at 30 to celebrating my 40th birthday with newfound wisdom and strength. Join me as I share the pivotal moments and lessons learned along the way. Discover the power of embracing change and how dr…

Are you curious about what a relationship coach does and how they can help you build fulfilling relationships? Do you want to understand the difference between therapy and coaching and why you might choose one over the other? If so, this podcast might be for you. This podcast might be for you if: You struggle with setting boundaries in relationship…

Have you ever struggled with ending a relationship gracefully, torn between your care for the person and your need for self-respect? In this episode, I have a heartfelt conversation with Jisselle about her on-again-off-again relationship. We explore how to end such relationships with grace and compassion, focusing on setting clear boundaries, under…

Have you ever felt conflicted about your feelings towards your parents, loving them deeply while also recognizing the pain they may have caused? In this episode, I share personal stories about my relationship with my father and explore how our attachment styles, formed by our primary caregivers, influence our current emotional well-being and relati…

Have you ever found yourself in a heated argument with your partner, only to realize later that it was all a big misunderstanding? In this episode, I have a heartfelt coaching call with Christine, who is struggling with communication issues in her marriage. We dive deep into a recent conflict she had with her husband and explore the underlying issu…

Do you find yourself frustrated when people don't meet your expectations, even after you've made them clear? Perhaps it's not just about what's being said, but how it's being communicated. This episode of Speak Honest dives into the complexities of frustration in relationships, focusing on how miscommunications and unmet expectations can escalate c…

Are you questioning whether your relationship expectations stem from your own desires or from societal pressures? Maybe it's time to dive into where these expectations really come from. This episode is a compelling exploration of one woman's journey to discern her true relationship needs and confront the challenging dynamics of a disorganized attac…

Are you constantly sharing your "feelings" with your partner, but find they seem overwhelmed and shut down every time you do? Maybe it's not your feelings you're sharing—it could be your perceptions. This episode unravels the subtle yet significant differences between emotions and perceptions and their impact on communication. Discover how to clear…

In this heartfelt episode, we dive into the emotional complexities of maintaining a friendship with an ex. Our guest, Grace, shares her personal struggles with deciding whether she can be just friends with someone she previously had romantic feelings for. After a tumultuous relationship marked by on-and-off communication and unresolved feelings, Gr…

Are you caught in a cycle of conflict and misunderstanding in your relationships? This episode takes you through the Drama Triangle, a psychological model that highlights the roles of victim, persecutor, and rescuer that we often unconsciously adopt. Learn how these roles restrict us and discover a path to empowerment by transitioning into the role…

Ever found yourself tangled in friendship drama that feels like a never-ending soap opera? In today's episode of Speak Honest, we dive deep with Sarah into the murky waters of friendship conflicts, uncovering the roles we play in the drama triangle. With a sprinkle of laughter, a dash of wisdom, and a whole lot of heart, we explore the importance o…

On this episode of "Speak Honest," we explore the essential topic of grounding techniques and their significant impact on managing emotional triggers and stress. We discuss what triggers mean, how they can act as catalysts for personal growth, and the importance of grounding techniques in turning these moments from potential setbacks into opportuni…

In this heart-to-heart episode, we dive deep with Sonja, a fellow coach who's navigating the tricky waters of perfectionism and the weight of responsibility in her coaching world. Together, we peel back the layers of Sonja's relationship with herself, her amazing clients, and the heartbeat of her business. It's all about finding that sweet spot bet…

Ever had a moment when something small made your emotions skyrocket? We all have, and it's not just about big, scary stuff from our pasts. Today, we're taking a cue from Gabor Maté, an awesome psychologist, to look at triggers in a cool new way. Think of it like finding secret messages from your emotions, showing you ways to grow and get better at …

Dive into the heart of love's ebbs and flows with our latest episode, with the wonderfully open and insightful Alex. We peel back the layers of her tumultuous on-again, off-again relationship, examining how this constant cycle is impacting her well-being and sense of self-worth. Our conversation delves deep into the importance of understanding pers…

Today we're getting into the nitty-gritty of how our attachment styles—be it secure, anxious, avoidant, or even disorganized—shape the way we juggle needing others and standing on our own two feet in our relationships. We're talking about what it means to lean on someone just the right amount, how to spot when it's tipping into codependency, or whe…

Conquering Perfectionism and Imposter Syndrome: A Journey into Casual Teaching In our latest episode, join me, Jennifer Noble, as we dive deep with Dee, a dedicated casual teacher navigating the choppy waters of perfectionism and imposter syndrome in the teaching world. Dee opens up about the high stakes of living up to full-time teacher standards,…

Today's 'Speak Honest' episode serves up a slice of wisdom on moving past breakups and the all-too-familiar rumination on exes. 🍕💔 Ever caught yourself idealizing past relationships, thinking it's love keeping you hooked? We dive into why it's often more about missing the feelings they brought into our lives, not the person themselves. We tackle a …

In Episode 2 of 'Speak Honest,' I chat with Jessica about navigating the choppy waters of expressing needs in friendships. We touch on the challenges of depending too much on one friend and the fear of deepening other relationships. It's a candid conversation filled with practical tips for diversifying emotional support and finding balance in our c…

In the first episode of 'Speak Honest', host and relationship coach Jennifer Noble introduces her podcast themed around relationship healing. Jennifer plans to discuss concepts like attachment styles, providing insights and tips to help listeners understand their relationship patterns and eventually build healthy relationships. She sheds light on h…

🧡 Welcome to 'Speak Honest,' a podcast where deep understanding of relationships and attachment theory meets heartfelt connection. Hosted by Jennifer Noble, a certified relationship coach, this trailer offers a glimpse into a world where honest conversations ignite transformation. Jennifer shares her journey and passion for helping women heal from …