24 hour early access and AD-FREE episodes available on Patreon You can access my mailing list, workshops, and other resources I have available at https://linktr.ee/cptsdtherapist You can email me cptsdtherapist@gmail.com for any inquiries Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/complextraumarecovery/support
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System Speak: Dissociative Identity Disorder ( Multiple Personality Disorder ), Complex Trauma , and Dissociation
Emma Sunshaw
Diagnosed with Dissociative Identity Disorder at age 36, Emma and her system share what they learn along the way about DID, dissociation, trauma, and mental health. Educational, supportive, inclusive, and inspiring, System Speak documents her healing journey through the best and worst of life in recovery through insights, conversations, and collaborations.
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Mr and Mrs Therapy | EMDR, Trauma, Complex PTSD, Communication, Anxiety, Depression, Marriage, Focus on the Family
Timothy Olson / Ruth Olson - Inspired by Emerson Eggerich, Focus on the Family, and Tony Robbins
***TOP 1.5% PODCAST*** Is your trauma consuming you? Are you tired of constantly having anxiety or depression? Are you struggling to stop negative self talk? Do you have past hurts that still haunts you? Are you fighting about the same things over and over again in your relationship? Do you have past hurts that still haunts you? In this podcast, you will find tools and resources to help you better understand yourself and your relationships. You’ll learn how to manage or even eliminate the co ...
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Complex PTSD Recovery [Reports]: We Are Traumatized Motherfuckers
CPTSD, Intergenerational PTSD, Relational Trauma | TMFR LLC
Part of the Traumatized Motherfuckers' Research Project: What you need to know about CPTSD, in bitesized summaries of our in-depth research efforts. Peer-reviewed research and irreverent dark humor meet trauma recovery, without the "bright sides." Let's talk about the complicated experience of rectifying a life built on trauma, relearning how to have relationships, and re-imagining your future... in micro chunks. (When you're ready, jump into the deep end, detailed below.) You aren't alone, ...
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The Very Hard Conversations (Part 2)
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Jules and I share about learning to have very hard conversations. You can JOIN THE COMMUNITY HERE. We have peer support check-in groups, an art group, a lego group, movie groups, and social events. Additional zoom groups are optional, but only available by joining the groups. Join us! To submit an email to the podcast: podcast@systemspeak.com Conte…
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Ep 229 - Mastering Money Talks: Creating a Safe Space for Financial Conversations
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We want to work with YOU! 15 Minute Free Consultation Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session In this episode of Mr. and Mrs. Therapy, hosts Tim and Ruth Olson explore the intricacies of financial discussions within relationships. As they continue their series on money, the focus shifts to practical communication strategies that can ease money…
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Attunement in therapy + an exciting announcement
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In this episode I talk about my newest obsession, attunement and the role of interpersonal neurobiology in therapy. I also share the exciting news that I had my first training CEU certified! My training on applied interpersonal neurobiology and attunement practices will be in February 2025. I also have a non CEU version available for folks who don’…
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Ep 228 - Financial Trauma Responses: Navigate Conflict with Ease
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We want to work with YOU! 15 Minute Free Consultation Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session Welcome to Mr. and Mrs. Therapy, where licensed marriage and family therapists Tim and Ruth Olson guide you in transforming life's challenges into opportunities for personal growth and healthier relationships. Join us this week as we delve into financ…
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Jules and I share about our hard year and learning to have hard conversations. You can JOIN THE COMMUNITY HERE. We have peer support check-in groups, an art group, a lego group, movie groups, and social events. Additional zoom groups are optional, but only available by joining the groups. Join us! To submit an email to the podcast: podcast@systemsp…
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Ep 227 - Pt. 2 Unpacking Financial Baggage: Childhood Influences on Money Beliefs
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We want to work with YOU! 15 Minute Free Consultation Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session In this episode of Mr. and Mrs. Therapy, hosts Tim and Ruth Olson delve into the intricate dynamics of financial conflicts and their roots in childhood and societal influences. Drawing from their expertise as trauma experts and marriage therapists, th…
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We explore how attachment wounds impact relationships. You can JOIN THE COMMUNITY HERE. We have peer support check-in groups, an art group, a lego group, movie groups, and social events. Additional zoom groups are optional, but only available by joining the groups. Join us! To submit an email to the podcast: podcast@systemspeak.com Content Note: Co…
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Ep 226 - Pt1 Navigating Holiday Finances: From Strain to Triumph
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We want to work with YOU! 15 Minute Free Consultation Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session Welcome to the latest episode of Mr. and Mrs. Therapy! Tim and Ruth Olson, licensed therapists and experts in trauma and mental health, delve into the intricate connections between finances and personal relationships, especially during the holiday sea…
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We get ourselves through a hard weekend. You can JOIN THE COMMUNITY HERE. We have peer support check-in groups, an art group, a lego group, movie groups, and social events. Additional zoom groups are optional, but only available by joining the groups. Join us! To submit an email to the podcast: podcast@systemspeak.com Content Note: Content on this …
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We talk with Jules about our avoidance experience in therapy. You can JOIN THE COMMUNITY HERE. We have peer support check-in groups, an art group, a lego group, movie groups, and social events. Additional zoom groups are optional, but only available by joining the groups. Join us! To submit an email to the podcast: podcast@systemspeak.com Content N…
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Ep 225 - Breaking the Cycle of Entitlement: Embrace Gratitude
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We want to work with YOU! 15 Minute Free Consultation Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session Welcome to another enlightening episode of Mr. and Mrs. Therapy, where your hosts, Tim and Ruth Olson, delve into the pervasive issue of entitlement and offer transformative strategies for embracing gratitude. This week, learn to recognize subtle enti…
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Ep 224 - Battling Entitlement: How It Steals Joy and Affects Relationships
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We want to work with YOU! 15 Minute Free Consultation Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session Welcome to another insightful episode of Mr. and Mrs. Therapy with your hosts, Tim and Ruth Olson. This week, we delve into the complex interplay between entitlement and gratitude, exploring how entitlement can erode joy and cause dissatisfaction both…
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We talk with Jules about our avoidance experience in therapy. You can JOIN THE COMMUNITY HERE. We have peer support check-in groups, an art group, a lego group, movie groups, and social events. Additional zoom groups are optional, but only available by joining the groups. Join us! To submit an email to the podcast: podcast@systemspeak.com Content N…
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4.11 Exploring Yer Haunted self pt 1: STRESS, BIG EMOS, MISALIGNMENTS, EMBARRASHAMING MEMORIES
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What waits inside your self? STRESS, BIG EMOTIONS, MISALIGNMENTS, AND HUMILIATING MEMORIES, anyone? Let's summarize these stops on our spooktacular self-adventure. VIDEYUM! For the full ride, including DISASSOCIATION, the WHAT'S NEXTS, and FEAR check patreon.com/traumatizedmotherfuckers Happy holiday season ❄️☃️❤️🔥 leave a holiday tip Hosted on Ac…
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The piano music I have done for our office playlist. It is not holiday music. It is the story of the podcast over the last year, and it is your musical “gift” this year! We are so grateful for you(s)! 🌻 TTPD Into the Unknown Lavender Haze Wrecking Ball Trustfall Sweet Caroline Anti-Hero Barbie Girl Rolling in the Deep We Don't Talk About Bruno You …
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Ep 223 - The Battle Between Entitlement and Gratitude: Finding True Joy
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We want to work with YOU! 15 Minute Free Consultation Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session Welcome to the Mr. and Mrs. Therapy podcast! In this enlightening episode, hosts Tim and Ruth Olson, experienced marriage and family therapists, guide us through the intricacies of entitlement and gratitude. Released just in time for Thanksgiving, the…
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traumafamily holidays and the epiphany of ENOUGH
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Video! It's that time. Whether you're NC, LC, or BC (bitter contact), it helps to integrate evidence and recognize your personal "ENOUGH." For more help with the holidays, check patreon.com/traumatizedmotherfuckers and find the free Holiday Survival Collection. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.…
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Ep 222 - Navigating Grief During the Holidays: Supporting Loved Ones
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We want to work with YOU! 15 Minute Free Consultation Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session The holidays can be especially challenging for those grieving the loss of a loved one. In this episode of Mr. and Mrs. Therapy, licensed therapists Tim and Ruth Olson offer valuable insights and practical tips for supporting someone who is grieving du…
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Jamie+ has a new book, You Lied to Me About God, that they want to talk about: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/760810/you-lied-to-me-about-god-by-jamie-marich-phd/ To submit an email to the podcast: podcast@systemspeak.com Content Note: Content on this website and in the podcasts is assumed to be trauma and/or dissociative related due to t…
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Ep 221 - Coping with Grief During the Holidays
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We want to work with YOU! 15 Minute Free Consultation Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session In this episode of Mr. and Mrs. Therapy, hosts Tim and Ruth Olson delve into navigating the unique challenges that grief presents during the holiday season. With compassionate insights and expert advice, this episode covers how to honor loved ones whi…
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We share an update about the new school year, and acknowledge some wins and the feeling like a fresh start with a new year. You can JOIN THE COMMUNITY HERE. We have peer support check-in groups, an art group, a lego group, movie groups, and social events. Additional zoom groups are optional, but only available by joining the groups. Join us! To sub…
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Ep 220 - Navigating Grief During the Holiday Season
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We want to work with YOU! 15 Minute Free Consultation Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session Welcome back to Mr. and Mrs. Therapy, where licensed therapists Tim and Ruth Olson guide you through life's challenges with empathy and expertise. As the holiday season approaches, they introduce a new mini-series focused on grief, a complex emotion t…
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We share a therapy update after the family visits. You can JOIN THE COMMUNITY HERE. We have peer support check-in groups, an art group, a lego group, movie groups, and social events. Additional zoom groups are optional, but only available by joining the groups. Join us! To submit an email to the podcast: podcast@systemspeak.com Content Note: Conten…
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Alignment after this goddamn election
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"Be with your self undistracted, unphased by negative emotions, and working towards alignment!" Okay bitch, not a good week. Let's talk about aligning after this election. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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You need to know about it. 99 cents. You can JOIN THE COMMUNITY HERE. We have peer support check-in groups, an art group, a lego group, movie groups, and social events. Additional zoom groups are optional, but only available by joining the groups. Join us! To submit an email to the podcast: podcast@systemspeak.com Content Note: Content on this webs…
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Ep 219 - Navigating Life's Pivots: Embracing Change for Growth
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We want to work with YOU! 15 Minute Free Consultation Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session Welcome to another episode of Mr. and Mrs. Therapy, where hosts Tim and Ruth Olson, licensed marriage and family therapists, share insights on transforming life's challenges into opportunities for personal growth. This week, they explore the art of pi…
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Ep 218 - The Purposeful Art of Communication
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We want to work with YOU! 15 Minute Free Consultation Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session Welcome back to Mr. and Mrs. Therapy, where hosts Tim and Ruth Olson explore the fundamental purpose of communication in relationships. As licensed marriage and family therapists, they delve into the reasons we communicate and how purposeful communica…
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We wrestle with acceptance of circumstances in our lives, only to find out it requires accepting ourself/ves. You can JOIN THE COMMUNITY HERE. We have peer support check-in groups, an art group, a lego group, movie groups, and social events. Additional zoom groups are optional, but only available by joining the groups. Join us! To submit an email t…
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Ep 217 - Election Day Anxiety: Finding Calm Amidst Chaos
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We want to work with YOU! 15 Minute Free Consultation Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session Welcome back to Mr. and Mrs. Therapy, where Tim and Ruth Olson, licensed marriage and family therapists, delve into personal growth and relationship building. In this episode, recorded just days before election day, we shift focus from systemic electi…
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We share something we wrote about learning to notice Littles. You can JOIN THE COMMUNITY HERE. We have peer support check-in groups, an art group, a lego group, movie groups, and social events. Additional zoom groups are optional, but only available by joining the groups. Join us! To submit an email to the podcast: podcast@systemspeak.com Content N…
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Working with shame in trauma therapy
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In this episode I talk all about shame and complex trauma - how it develops, and how it heals. To support my work and check out my longer form content, click my linktree below :) https://linktr.ee/cptsdtherapist --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/complextraumarecovery/support…
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We do not discuss parties or sides or anything explicit about election results. We share our experience of talking to the children this morning, and our efforts at responding to them and ourselves, while validating trauma histories. You can JOIN THE COMMUNITY HERE. We have peer support check-in groups, an art group, a lego group, movie groups, and …
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The Nervous System and Trauma Recovery
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Connection, Protection, and the Brain.
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Ep 216 - Navigating Election Day Anxiety: A Therapeutic Perspective
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We want to work with YOU! 15 Minute Free Consultation Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session Welcome to a special Election Day episode of Mr. and Mrs. Therapy, where hosts Tim and Ruth Olson, licensed marriage and family therapists, guide you through the tension and anxiety that often accompany election seasons. In this episode, Tim and Ruth …
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We talk about processing in therapy, little Littles, and why (it feels like) shiny happy God can’t be not-real. (I do not say God isn’t real, but hear a quote that references trauma in the connection between spiritual and earthly parents). NPR Interview referenced HERE. The author interviewed is Shalom Auslander. You can JOIN THE COMMUNITY HERE. We…
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Nathan and I talk with the children about "upregulating" and "downregulating" in an attachment context, as found in the book "Secure Relating". You can JOIN THE COMMUNITY HERE. We have peer support check-in groups, an art group, a lego group, movie groups, and social events. Additional zoom groups are optional, but only available by joining the gro…
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BONUS Entering Yer HAUNTED self 👻 Choose your own spookventure begins!
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We're doing something extra 💀 It's a halloween, election, and holiday season special! 💀 Today we begin exploring our abandoned selves and exorcising awaiting demons. What's in store when we reconnect with our lives? Stress, the big negative feels, constant disassociation attempts, horrifying memories of self, tense misalignments between beliefs and…
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4.10 Reconnecting with your haunted self
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Being with you... isn't an innate skill after trauma. And yet, we must, or we'll never recover. Take this long treat of an episode to start practicing your self-work. video version! (free!) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Nathan and I talk with the children about "upregulating" and "downregulating" in an attachment context, as found in the book "Secure Relating". You can JOIN THE COMMUNITY HERE. We have peer support check-in groups, an art group, a lego group, movie groups, and social events. Additional zoom groups are optional, but only available by joining the gro…
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Cognitive behavioral therapy - a critique
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The podcast is back! Thanks to everyone listening and supporting me. In this episode I talk about all the common struggles people with complex trauma may experience while in cognitive behavioral therapy. To check out my Patreon and other resources, click here! https://linktr.ee/cptsdtherapist If you like my podcast, consider leaving a review or sha…
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Jules and I talk with symposium attendees about our shared experiences. Social Media referenced: Kit - @squidont on TikTok Megs - @brushstrokes_imagination on Instagram or here on YouTube https://www.instagram.com/brushstrokes_imagination?igsh=MTNmNHg2MjYyaWc5NQ== https://youtube.com/@its_not_our_imagination?si=iy_W8aDkX_9kQCIz https://www.instagra…
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Jules and I talk the night before the Symposium, including sharing an update on Jules caring for her hips. You can JOIN THE COMMUNITY HERE. We have peer support check-in groups, an art group, a lego group, movie groups, and social events. Additional zoom groups are optional, but only available by joining the groups. Join us! To submit an email to t…
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Jules and I connect with our friend to discuss the movie Inside Out 2. You can JOIN THE COMMUNITY HERE. We have peer support check-in groups, an art group, a lego group, movie groups, and social events. Additional zoom groups are optional, but only available by joining the groups. Join us! To submit an email to the podcast: podcast@systemspeak.com …
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Ep 215 - The Ledger of Wrongs: Clearing the Path to Healthy Relationships
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We want to work with YOU! 15 Minute Free Consultation Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session In this engaging episode of Mr. and Mrs. Therapy, hosts Tim and Ruth Olson explore the concept of the mental "ledger" we keep, often unintentionally, of the wrongs done to us. Through a personal story about racquetball, Tim illustrates how this ledger…
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Ep 214 - Navigating the World of Sales: A Journey Through Car Dealership Experiences
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We want to work with YOU! 15 Minute Free Consultation Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session Welcome to Mr. and Mrs. Therapy, where hosts Tim and Ruth Olson guide you in transforming life's challenges into opportunities for growth and healthier relationships. In this episode, they delve into the intriguing world of sales, exploring how differ…
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We run some errands, including going to the election office to be sure we are registered to vote. REGISTER TO VOTE HERE. You can JOIN THE COMMUNITY HERE. We have peer support check-in groups, an art group, a lego group, movie groups, and social events. Additional zoom groups are optional, but only available by joining the groups. Join us! To submit…
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Ep 213 - Unpacking EMDR: Addressing Accessibility and Cost Concerns
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We want to work with YOU! 15 Minute Free Consultation Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session Welcome to the Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast, where hosts Tim and Ruth Olson, seasoned marriage and family therapists, guide you through transforming life's challenges into opportunities for personal growth and healthier relationships. This episode con…
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WW: Singing Over the Bones (3 of 3)
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Jules and I respond to the introduction of the book Women Who Run with the Wolves. You can JOIN THE COMMUNITY HERE. We have peer support check-in groups, an art group, a lego group, movie groups, and social events. Additional zoom groups are optional, but only available by joining the groups. Join us! To submit an email to the podcast: podcast@syst…
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Ep 212 - Beyond Trauma: Exploring the Depths of EMDR Therapy
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We want to work with YOU! 15 Minute Free Consultation Start healing now! Set up a Coaching Session Welcome to another enlightening episode of Mr. and Mrs. Therapy, where hosts Tim and Ruth Olson, licensed marriage and family therapists, dive into the intricacies of EMDR therapy. This week, they address the criticism that EMDR places too much emphas…
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